to answer the question from a personal standpoint, I'm getting very tired of goals that are endlessly out of reach and it is seeming not so desirable to care what happens next. At least if i embrace the journey over the end i have *something*. Which means I don't care so much about making right choices as i once did... as it turns out that is kinda freeing. It is a real tyranny, having to devote one's life energy to having to try to get the 'right' results all the time...
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