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Originally Posted by Redchic12
Gem: wanna do it cos you care or you don’t because you just don’t want to.
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When we try to find a framework for it, we start to find out that it's doesn't really fit in a box, but there's things like doing your bit, keeping promises, being reliable, 'showing up'. Stuff like that forms obligations with respect to another's needs, but you have to be selective about, are they worth it? Is it really my place to be involved like that? Is it a waste of time (no good will come of it anyway),do they even want me to do the things? And other kinds of question.