Remember it may not go as per your rehearsal. It's possible to visualise without expectations and that's fine as long as you start into the relationship with no expectations, hence being careful to visualise only bringing him into your sphere.

It's too easy to enter it with the attitude "I want it to go my way" which will probably lead to disappointment... basically because he'll have expectations which you may not be willing to accede to. Maybe better to start with 'let's see how it goes'.

Could also be that he is doing the same as you, rehearsing a different relationship in his mind, raising his hopes etc.

We were talking about black magick elsewhere in the forum recently. What you're doing is pale grey magick! So....take care!
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