It's very possible to make the commitment and find the healing on your own. But besides accepting your past lives, which is how we heal things that are carried over, you must work on breaking your action patterns in this life time. If you hide in a box of same, you are not allowing yourself to experience different. In other words, review your reactions from these relationships and play them out differently in your head. Be willing to learn what you need to know from doing this because sometimes, with patience and commitment to accept what you find, you will have spontaneous learnings that can connect your whole life for you.
Speaking from experience.
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