This speaking lark is a lose lose situation -

I was told recently, not for the first time, that I speak too directly and some take offense at that...

But then I've also been told that I speak to poetically and no one can understand what I'm saying...

oh, but also that I analyse too much and too much thinking must have gone into the writing...

but then...that I don't explain what I really mean...

then back to...yup, you guessed it, that I'm saying what I really mean too directly

...And when I point out such things like the difference between intellectual analysis and contemplation, the old bolt of lightening comes out to strike down such a devilish diva clearly telling others how to speak

In my defense, I am just expressing meself... rather than the oneness of onenessies that would enable one to speak as one and all