Life Changing Transits
 

I have Uranus opposite Pluto transiting my 7th house. Since it began last year, I've had major issues with the men I date and also roommates. I have never had issues before with roommates. People have told me I'm the perfect roommate and I am super easy going.

I have posted my issues on this board about some of my past roommate experiences and I have just moved into another apartment with a completely neurotic nut job. All the men I have met and dated this past year have also been manipulative, controlling or disrespectful. I haven't really had any issues with women except one which was a roommate that took advantage of my kindness.

I eventually thought what the heck is happening to me. It's like I meet the same men over and over again as well as the same kinds of roommates. I looked at my transits and noticed Uranus opposite Pluto in my 7th house began right when all these issues started.

This summer I made a really good female friend who makes me stand up for myself and not be so nice. She has helped me realize that I can't be as easy going as I've been in the past. All of these experiences have also led me to develop a "don't mess with me" attitude. I broke things off with the last guy I dated without looking back once he crossed my boundaries. I was straight to the point and blunt in how I asserted myself. Then I moved on and cut contact. My new roommate also tries to avoid me because I stand up to his attempts to bully me. I don't think he expected a soft spoken female like myself to stand up for herself and confront his bad behaviour.

This transit has been very frustrating and I cant wait for it to end but I feel like a changed person. I feel like that Katy Perry song "Roar!" I just don't have time for people's garbage anymore.

So anyways, do any of you have any life changing transit experiences you want to share? Either good or bad.