If I'm stuck on a Guy? And keep rehersing a relationship in my head?
 

I rehearsed my relationship with my x spouse many many times before we made things work out and were together long-term. I started getting to know a guy and then, well my life got messy. He got kind of stressed. He though I was mad at him a lot when I was just venting some to him. Anyway. If I just do what I did the last time. And I relax about it, won't it keep attempting to attract him in? Thus what I rehearse may still come about anyway. Anyway, with my x, I was only rehearsing that he loved me and we were a couple. What I got was a marriage. Abraham calls this scripting.

Remember it may not go as per your rehearsal. It's possible to visualise without expectations and that's fine as long as you start into the relationship with no expectations, hence being careful to visualise only bringing him into your sphere.

It's too easy to enter it with the attitude "I want it to go my way" which will probably lead to disappointment... basically because he'll have expectations which you may not be willing to accede to. Maybe better to start with 'let's see how it goes'.

Could also be that he is doing the same as you, rehearsing a different relationship in his mind, raising his hopes etc.

We were talking about black magick elsewhere in the forum recently. What you're doing is pale grey magick! So....take care!
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Are there any Aber's here whom can chime in?

I've really decided to refer to him in my mind frequently as my husband and see how things go.