Healing of a "bad" person
 

How a bad person like a bully or a serial killer heals himself/herself?

As follows:

Wakes up. Realizes God’s love and loves God. Decides not to be bad anymore. Heals the negativities he/she received (because his/her negativity was caused by these) by spending time in nature, using crystals etc. and forgiving them. Learns that punishment serves no purpose and makes the situation worse and if there is punishment, everybody will be punished because everybody commits faults.

Forgives himself/herself by noticing that he/she committed his/her negativities because he/she did not know about God's love and negativities he/she received contributed to them.

Sounds simple but the whole process may take decades.

Being a bad person is sometimes a Learnt behaviour a lot depends on how they were bought up and what they see ,
Nobody is born evil.
Healing is not as easy as it says some are psychiatric issues that need more complex treatment,
Not everything can be cured by medication.


Namaste

I was a bully. I need to focus on sobriety or else I'm rotten.

@NS: I was just thinking about this. This can perhaps be classified as the negativity that is received from others.

@lazydullard: Good luck!

Yes, growing up, the negativity we receive from others is 'modeled' to us as the way the world ''is'' ;
the way we are supposed to be in the world.
Then, one day we run across a super kind person and we start to see ...
"Oh, this feels Way better than negativity, criticizing, sarcasm, aggression, anger and mocking...." :smile:

Thanks MH, NS and LD!

Thanks again Native spirit and Miss Hepburn for reminding me that "it is sometimes learned behavior" in addition to receving negativity.
I can fully forgive negativity now. :hug2:

People commit negativity because:

1. They ignore God's love.
2. It is learned behavior.
3. They received a lot of negativity.

Nobody commits negativity for no reason.
.

And not only learned behavior -but, yes, when people are raised with being ignore, neglected, beaten,
demeaned...they are SO wounded, hurt - often unable to have 'normal healthy, thriving' relationships with
neighbors, partners, pets....because the pain just pours out of them as anger...example is your everyday road rage.

green1, a story for you.

An older lady was angry almost every time I saw her - usually because of the traffic. OMG was she mad, furious!
I said, after 5 times..''Ya know you seem like as a child you had some pretty heavy trauma...that you're now
taking out on people that don't use their signals''
It's being blown out of proportion
She said , Nope.
Of course, I pressed a bit...pretty soon she's crying her eyes out!!
Her story--- that at first she said 'didn't bother' her ...then the crying started...
So she is 4 years old, the family is at a restaurant - she picks up her ice cream bowl to lick. Her mother SLAPS HER FACE! :icon_frown:

She has carried this pain for 6 decades stuffed down in her making
her lash out unreasonably all over the place, complaining , irritable with a short fuse....unconsciously.

Having compassion for mean, bad people to me shows wisdom.
(While not condoning the behavior, of course.)
From my experience.

Thank you Miss Hepburn. :hug2:

I have to say, usually a bad person does not feel a need to heal. He or she ENJOYED the bad things they were doing. They are pleasant memories. They might however be worried that there could eventually be repercussions, so they want to be forgiven so there will be no vengeance coming their way. Freeing their backs so they can do more of it.

I will admit I have strong feelings about this. But the most used qualifier to 'offender' is 'repeat'.