Can’t find dream interpretation online
 

Dream:
My partner and I are looking for a flat.
It’s a beautiful flat.
We start an argument over how it’s not thee perfect place for us but i disagree

I start walking up the stairs and as I do so, the stair of the first flight raise up like an elevator (after I’ve already moved ont the next flight)

I’m looking down the first flight of stairs as they are slowly closing the gap and my boyfriend is at the bottom. He decides he can make it up the stairs in time.
I panic because I know he can’t, and I literally see him get crushed and hear his head crack. I’m in shock. I think he’s alive because I hear him laugh and then I wake up.

It was an awful dream!
In real life we are looking at place to live. We are nowhere near being in a position to buy. But still looking. I would like to live in Spain. He would like to live in Italy. (I’m interested in Italy but have never been, I think he’d be okay with Spain but would prefer Italy). I’ve also just got accepted to a masters course and when I start study I will be progressing my career, and he will be supporting us while he is working. Maybe I’m worried and the pressure that is crushing him? He has been under a lot of stress lately with work too?

It’s just hard to find meanings for dreams about “death by crushing” and “stairs that crush”

Death here can mean the end or overcoming of some menta state as it's the head that gets crushed... Rising to higher levels of being involves dying to lower mental states. In the dream your partner is laughing.. suggesting he too rises to a higher state..
Hope this helps.

The only good interpretation for your dreams can come from your inner guidance. Dream messages are specific to each dreamer.

This seems like a typical anxiety dream that decisions made might change things. You may feel like you're crushing your partner's dreams or career or that your career choices are not beneficial to your partners. You're rising and they get left behind, crushed or are forced to change in some way. However, since he was laughing, it is an issue for you only as to how you feel about things.

Easy, bad things happen to us because there are negative energies attached/envolved. Learn to live positively, that will sort things out and clear your aura/energy feild. Amen

I think the stairs are representing your position in relating to your master's degree progression, and that you guys are also looking for a place to stay, but since no place has really stood out for you being in the position to buy, I think the pressure from that is what's affecting how you feel about your partner being able to support it in the midst of the decision of where you guys will live, I think is represented from the collapsing stairs - since the place you both have in mind are different countries. The laughing maybe a key to not feel heavy-hearted about it? Just go with the flow with the situation.