Dancing around
 

I like a guy. I dunno if he likes me. We talk a lot but not consistently (not every day, not all the time). He lives far away from me. Sometimes things get flirty, but I pull back because he lives far away, and I don't think I'm his type. He is not afraid to show what he likes in a woman and so far none of what he likes reflects me. I'm not about to change someone, and I am not going to go past friendly banter. But he isn't going away. And I've known him for over a decade but all of a sudden it's more talking. What is going on?