Can a man protect himself from negative intentions/energy from a females?
Hi. I'm a young man, in my late 20s. I been into manifesting & spellwork etc for the past few years now. And, as a man, I can respect the place of a woman as a highly divine being, in the grand scheme of things. I feel like I recognize moreso the power of females and femininity in general because I'm a gay male who doesn't just see females as just sexual objects.
But, I've encountered a few female narcissists in life and they all seemed to want to take my energy and set me back in life. One is a family member who seems to have a growing interest in Wicca/witchcraft which kinda concerns me because she knows I have a disdain for her. She has always also seemed jealous of me and other family members too. Should I be worried at all? Can I still be protected from her if she decides to use as much power as possible to try to destroy me? I always try to manifest my protection via candlework every week or so. I hate to talk so much about gender here. But it's only because I heard that females are connected to the universe way more powerfully than men are. So I just wonder what it means for guys like me who only mind their business & just want protection and prosperity for myself in life. |
Tell yourself frequently: "I will only react to constructive suggestions".
This gives you some protection against your own negative thoughts and those of others. |
Law of Attraction isn’t the only spiritual law of the Universe. There are many others, and another one is the Law of Reflection. Everything and everyone in the world is a reflection of us and the energies we are putting out. Ask yourself: what is she reflecting? Could it be a fear or an anger of some kind? Have you known any narcissists before? Were there any who treated you badly and you are still angry at them now?
As for protection, all you need is good thoughts. Affirm that you are at peace, and that you are one with everyone you meet. That way, you will only attract good and positive people in your world. |
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But, the thing is, I've also heard from many spiritual practitioners that narcissistic people are simply just naturally attracted to empathic people, like myself, simply because the light that we carry is like a goldmine of energy to them. So it's basically like having a bright red target on our backs simply for being so empathic. I guess I'm just searching for, you know, some peace of mind and the reassurance that my basic protection spells that I do once a week, is enough to shield myself from unwanted ill intent from people, in general, but especially from a practicing Wiccan female with ill intent since, again, females are far more gifted spiritually than men. I've also heard it's really hard for men to undo curses by women haha Anyway, I don't even think I'd be this worked up about all of this if a certain family member wasn't into the whole Wiccan thing haha |
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If the light you carry is so strong then why do you feel disdain for this female member of your family? Disdain suggests judgements on your part and a feeling of superiority. If you really want protection from anyone who might have ill-intent towards you then examine and eliminate all tendencies to ill-intent within yourself. Peace of mind and reassurance of protection does not come from doing weekly candlework. Rather it comes from clearing out our own inner tendencies and blockages which might attract harm from others. True magic begins on the mental plane - physical rituals are the outer expression. The need to do weekly spells for protection suggests an element of fear. Cultivate love and no-one can harm you. Peace |
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I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I can, with my whole chest, uphold the notion that sometimes people with the best intentions attract negative entities simply for being on a higher wavelength. It happens all the time. With that being said, my whole concern, with her being a female, is that she's slowly getting into Wicca, and she's the type that can be petty and not let things go. So I just wanted to know that I can hold my own, as a man with maybe limited spiritual capabilities compared to her, in the event that she tries to put some bad thing on me out of jealousy or pettiness. |
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Your conclusion that your disdain for your sister is perfectly warranted suggests a certain self-righteousness. Is this the mark of someone on a higher wavelength? Have you ever tried feeling compassion for your sister, being disdained by so many family members? Have you ever considered that you and your sister might have chosen to incarnate together to learn certain things together? She might be your best teacher. Peace |
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And if I'm being realistic, I do carry much more positivity than a lot of narcissists out there. I may be venting about my past traumas in this instance, but I don't think about them 24/7. I get that a lot of narcissists are lost souls but at the same time am I not about to speak on their shortcomings and be realistic about it? Especially being a victim of one? Not having an outlet to vent is just another example of toxic positivity I just would like to ultimately know if she has a spiritual advantage over me and my protection as she is acquiring a concerning growing interest in Wicca and due to her spiteful nature, I don't think it would be fair for her to possess any sort of heightened supernatural capabilities. Again, I hate to bring the topic of gender up but it's just after doing extensive research, I've heard from a few sources that female spiritual practitioners can easily breach the protection of a man. So I was just wondering if that's true in general. That's just my initial question is all. Didn't mean to come of as judgemental. |
She has not got a spiritual advantage over you but I feel a lot of Negativity in what you say.
I feel that you need to work on yourself first an foremost, If after that you still fear her use your hands as being a mirror and point it back to her. but i feel that you need to look within yourself before you do anything. Namaste |
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Again I suggest, cultivate love. Love is the greatest protection there is against any dark forces which may come your way. I don't mean a simpering idealistic love but love as a shield of shining light. And you may find that forgiveness is a surprisingly effective protection as well. Peace |
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