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GhostTown 15-09-2020 09:21 PM

How should I start meditating as a beginner?
 
I have no clue. Do I only have to focus on my breather for a short period of time?

Starman 16-09-2020 06:08 AM

I would suggest that you read a little about the different types of meditation.
See if there are any free or low cost meditation classes in your area.

There are free meditation instructions on the internet; the links below will
bring you to some of them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQOAVZew5l8

https://zenhabits.net/meditation-guide/

https://www.nytimes.com/guides/well/how-to-meditate

Unseeking Seeker 16-09-2020 07:34 AM

Meditation

A question is asked
‘why and how meditate’
‘Is it really the in thing to do’
being stillness sedate

Rephrasing the query
‘how may we make joy eternal’
We define by pure intent
quest to reside in bliss tranquil

Accustomed to being a doer
believing we are body identity
We dwell in cyclic joy & sorrow
rotating not attention polarity

In other words we stagnate
in narrow domains of the ego
Our attention entrapped in illusion
attachments we are reluctant to forgo

With this understanding clear
we choose to internalise attention
Thoughts rested yet attentive
void of emptiness our orientation

Resting thus in silence & stillness
in an effortless attention shift
Fulcrum of awareness heart centric
we begin to feel we are not adrift

This inner polarity of our sentience
dormant for long now slowly awakens
Stillness softly aligns with conscience
when voluntarily ego by us is forsaken

Relegating role of body as an interface
for day to day earth life experience
Stillness our mode with God as mover
we feel magnetism as joy exuberance

Having but grazed the outer periphery
of our own divinity resident within
Divine connect becomes our priority
gripping us in thunderous bliss ignition

We may, if we like, label this as meditation

GhostTown 16-09-2020 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Starman
I would suggest that you read a little about the different types of meditation.
See if there are any free or low cost meditation classes in your area.

There are free meditation instructions on the internet; the links below will
bring you to some of them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQOAVZew5l8

https://zenhabits.net/meditation-guide/

https://www.nytimes.com/guides/well/how-to-meditate

thank you so much!!!!!!

wstein 17-09-2020 02:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Starman
I would suggest that you read a little about the different types of meditation.

I agree. Still it pretty much doesn't matter at first. Pick one and see if it works for you. If not try another type. At first you will need to assert some discipline. However, forcing yourself to meditate is counter productive.

Small benefits affects are likely to occur right away but you may not notice them. If you have been practicing regularly for a few months and see no changes, ask some that knows you well if they have noticed any changes. Big changes take time usually, patience is required.

These are the biggest differences that matter for beginners in picking a style:
-Still or not. Most common types of meditation are practiced sitting still for a period of time. Note that any still comfortable position is just as good as long as its not in bed where you will tend to fall asleep. This is not to everyone's taste. If being still is not your thing, I suggest walking meditation.
-How much guidance you prefer. There are minimalist setups where the host does little more than light some candles, chime a bell to begin, keep a timer, chime a bell to end, and wish you namaste. On the other end are fully guided meditations where someone talks gently to you (or group) the entire time.
-No focus or one focus. One focus is more common for beginners as it tends to be easier them to notice they have become distracted or wandered. Focus can be on any one thing but most common are breathe, heartbeat, candle, spot on the wall. In no focus, you just try to be calm and still and not focus on anything.
-Silent or chanting. Chanting is usually a mantra or making a pure toning. In between is the popular 'Om' style.
-In person or recorded. There are many free guided meditations available online.

GhostTown 17-09-2020 02:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Unseeking Seeker
Meditation

A question is asked
‘why and how meditate’
‘Is it really the in thing to do’
being stillness sedate

Rephrasing the query
‘how may we make joy eternal’
We define by pure intent
quest to reside in bliss tranquil

Accustomed to being a doer
believing we are body identity
We dwell in cyclic joy & sorrow
rotating not attention polarity

In other words we stagnate
in narrow domains of the ego
Our attention entrapped in illusion
attachments we are reluctant to forgo

With this understanding clear
we choose to internalise attention
Thoughts rested yet attentive
void of emptiness our orientation

Resting thus in silence & stillness
in an effortless attention shift
Fulcrum of awareness heart centric
we begin to feel we are not adrift

This inner polarity of our sentience
dormant for long now slowly awakens
Stillness softly aligns with conscience
when voluntarily ego by us is forsaken

Relegating role of body as an interface
for day to day earth life experience
Stillness our mode with God as mover
we feel magnetism as joy exuberance

Having but grazed the outer periphery
of our own divinity resident within
Divine connect becomes our priority
gripping us in thunderous bliss ignition

We may, if we like, label this as meditation

intersting

GhostTown 17-09-2020 02:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wstein
I agree. Still it pretty much doesn't matter at first. Pick one and see if it works for you. If not try another type. At first you will need to assert some discipline. However, forcing yourself to meditate is counter productive.

Small benefits affects are likely to occur right away but you may not notice them. If you have been practicing regularly for a few months and see no changes, ask some that knows you well if they have noticed any changes. Big changes take time usually, patience is required.

These are the biggest differences that matter for beginners in picking a style:
-Still or not. Most common types of meditation are practiced sitting still for a period of time. Note that any still comfortable position is just as good as long as its not in bed where you will tend to fall asleep. This is not to everyone's taste. If being still is not your thing, I suggest walking meditation.
-How much guidance you prefer. There are minimalist setups where the host does little more than light some candles, chime a bell to begin, keep a timer, chime a bell to end, and wish you namaste. On the other end are fully guided meditations where someone talks gently to you (or group) the entire time.
-No focus or one focus. One focus is more common for beginners as it tends to be easier them to notice they have become distracted or wandered. Focus can be on any one thing but most common are breathe, heartbeat, candle, spot on the wall. In no focus, you just try to be calm and still and not focus on anything.
-Silent or chanting. Chanting is usually a mantra or making a pure toning. In between is the popular 'Om' style.
-In person or recorded. There are many free guided meditations available online.

Thank you. I found that Vipassana suits me. I tried it for 12 min today, and now I feel so relaxed.
So should I do it daily?
I just want to be less anxious in every day matters and more confident in the present moment, instead of trying to run away from unpleasant tasks and unpleasant emotions.

EmergingPath 17-09-2020 02:55 AM

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janielee 17-09-2020 03:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GhostTown
Thank you. I found that Vipassana suits me. I tried it for 12 min today, and now I feel so relaxed.
So should I do it daily?
I just want to be less anxious in every day matters and more confident in the present moment, instead of trying to run away from unpleasant tasks and unpleasant emotions.


There are different types of meditation; my advice is choose an established one and stick to it.

Daily for 10 minutes to start with is good; then build up to a longer session.

Vipassana and samatha go hand in hand; so just be aware of the breath and stay grounded in the body.

There are a lot of Buddhist groups which can also give you some guidance.

JL

GhostTown 17-09-2020 04:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by janielee
There are different types of meditation; my advice is choose an established one and stick to it.

Daily for 10 minutes to start with is good; then build up to a longer session.

Vipassana and samatha go hand in hand; so just be aware of the breath and stay grounded in the body.

There are a lot of Buddhist groups which can also give you some guidance.

JL

thank you :)


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