paganist work collegue
 

i had a work mayte who said he was a pagan but it tgurns out he did not practice his religion id come across pagan events and pass on the info to him hed say got to go to that a few weeks later id ask him how it went hed say how did what go, the pagan event dummy oh i did not go so some people do not preach what they say are or do

Paganism isn't a set religion. It varies from person to person, has no single set of beliefs and can be practiced in any way the follower wants.
There is no need for a pagan to attend any pagan event if they so choose or hold fast to any of the pagan holidays.
I am pagan and never attend pagan events, there is no dogma that says I must. . As a religion, it's a very personal (and private) practice that does not require a follower to prove their beliefs.
If this friend identifies as a pagan, then they probably are.

That is one of the nicest answers I have read in a long time.

Thank you.

There's also the possibility that he that he doesn't want to discuss it- it could be personal for him. I would ask why you feel the need to do this- do you do it to followers of other beliefs?