Distraction before a Goal comes to pass
 

In a love relationship, why is there always a distraction before reaching the finish line? Meaning, when two people are dating, and have finally decided this one it is, boom ... a distraction happens either a past love shows up or a better someone appears???

Test of the relationship? See if it's too weak to withstand the challenges or if it's strong enough to prevail... Sigh.

I think it's tragic and unpeaceful. Life should go a natural course, not a course with some force of intent driving behind it. Where did nature go? Where is peace? Everything so manipulative all the time...