I keep having astral sex but I don't know who with?
 

I had astral sex twice in the last day and I don't really know who with or if it's even a person. I was told by someone that we can get our higher self to differentiate who is who. But I asked the first time and it said it was my ex wife who changed into someone else half way through it. And the second time it was someone else. But I know it wasn't that person cause they were busy doing something else. I didn't ask the higher self who that was. But anyways. It seems to always want me focused on one person that I know is not the one doing it. But I don't know. The energy feels good but it is deceiving so that is not good. Maybe some day I will figure it out.

Do you happen to think a lot about this topic? This is how it actually works, your thoughts, so to say, draw this energy towards you and you get these experiences. Stop thinking about this topic and the experiences disappear completely, it may take some time, but it works.

So you definitely astral projected and not a dream? oh this stuff goes on in the Astral know - I was yanked out of my body one night by my Guides and shown things as part of 'my teaching' - a long way away it was, when i said to them 'going back to body now' billion mph backwards, then 'slam' back in body - that's as much as i'm saying on my experience...

It is weird though cause what if it is the essence of a person and that person isn't consciously aware of it. Like it is happening on a subconscious level? I mean many people experience things like feeling a loved on is hurt or something and then it turns out to be true. I mean if they are not calling out to us consciously how do we know they are hurt. But I don't know what it is exactly happening to me.

The thing was I wasn't astral projecting at the time. I just feel a presence and then tune in with my astral sight. Then it usually escalates. lol

Yeah I realize that putting it out of your mind usually works. I used to get pinching feelings when I ignored other astral entities. Like they wanted my attention. So now I try to see what's around me when it happens. I generally don't try to astral project anyplace. It always seems like these entities come to me. So it is weird.

Hmm. I just woke up from a dream and I was dreaming I was living a happy life with this person but nothing sexual was going on. It seemed like I had been with her for a long time but we were not having sex. We were together and in bed together and I think she was reading then she looked at me and finally gave me a kiss and I was so happy at that moment. But all around us was turmoil but there we seemed happy. I was not lucid in this dream.

Anyway what you said about people being connected too regardless - we are. Is there a purpose to those connections. Like I see synchronicities with certain people that are just crazy. Like we read the same books and watch the same shows. And it's not because I knew they were doing it until later. So I am not mimicking them and I don't even mention most of those things myself. Sometimes I wonder if it is some sort of societal programing but sometimes I think it's just a connection that is beyond my conscious minds comprehension. IDK.

They feed with your energy... just say no, fight back, stop giving in to these things, what you see is just an illusion.. Free your mind from such thoughts otherwise you will not escape from them.

Get your energy vibration high 'vibes' - so you connect to good spirit, you can get vibration info online - and keep in close contact with your own 'spiritual support' Angels'Guides'Higher Self as in conversation with them...

I don't think it's deceiving anymore than you having to yet decide who you want it to be. Or wanting more time to decide if you want them to be anyone at all in specific. Or just in general.

Empathy.
But that doesn't mean you have to feel their energy or make it any of your business. That is completely a choice, that you can and have to make. If you feel you have the desire to help them improve their mood, that might be a good enjoyable opportunity for that, otherwise you can simply place your attention/awareness on yourself or whatever you are focused upon, to set your intention, to focus in your own being and stabilize your own mood, especially if the mood of other people affect you negatively, then it is best to learn to focus around it and know that you can focus on their mood, but that you don't have to and thus it doesn't have to affect you in anyway whatsoever, not even to the slightest, if you can simply choose where you want to place your attention, your awareness, hold your mind, and be aware of your own mood, if you simply stabilize your own focused mood of your own preference, that is most valuable also to others, to hold your own light, so to speak, that then they can choose to match that, by the value of your physical presence and leading example. In that case, you don't even have to help their conscious mind, just your presence alone is enough, if you indeed do feel good, yourself. Then you can continue to feel good and that is the benefit that radiates to any and all, through the natural path of least resistance. Always.

Yeah that's always helpful. And to also know, that it really doesn't matter how you feel, because however you feel, you can always allow yourself to feel a little bit better than you are feeling in that moment.

And with that intention, we always improve our life. From within and therefor also from without.

Confident in my own ability to feel good, for no other reason than to feel good and because it simply feels good to feel good? Then there is only goodness everywhere and in all conditions and at all times. Cause you can enjoy all of it. All of it.
And that really allows the inspiration and benefit to flow from within. Regularly, often, consistently, chronically, steadily, stably.

The worst that can happen, is you are sick of feeling good. And then you realise, that that idea/thought makes no sense, and that it doesn't feel good.

For some it may take some time, but if hold that intention consistently enough, anyone and everyone can achieve unconditional joy and steady alignment with Source.

Yes Ewwerrin 'Power of Intention' - important that - and work on feeling good, then be stronger to help others with good intention...

The thing is I don't feel drained after the astral sex. If anything I feel lifted or healed. which is weird I guess. Like the vibration I get from it is very high. If it were something nefarious I would say it is more controlling in that it makes me see these people in a more positive light. The negative feelings I had toward these people seems to disappear. I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing?

That is the thing. I feel like it is of high vibration. It totally removes my negative thought towards these people. And I don't know if it is a good thing or a bad thing?

Maybe it is just me deciding who I want it to be. So maybe if it shows up again I will try to decide someone different. Someone I have never met before. then see what the experience is. I mean the experience is rather nice. For the most part. I don't feel drained and It feels healing in some ways. I don't know.

Wait, you guys are having astral sex?

It all sounds 'interesting' thisguyscott if it gets too much - just say 'enough' be gone... otherwise learn and enjoy...

I guess if you felt you were joining in....or you feel like you are being used/abused, because I've had the latter happen, and the person that did it was doing so in astral, but I was not. I had another do this to me, and it seemed to open a gate way to allowing demons to have access to me. Possibly, that is also what is going on for you.

I also experienced something the other day, in which I did not go astral. It was all in my mind in that I was thinking about the other person being with me, as I was, "having fun" & they felt it. I don't know what it is they exactly felt, but it pained them quite deeply, because that is the energy or thoughts I received in turn.

Maybe this is your truth..

I am trying to be careful in the words chosen, as I just had a thread deleted, since this is a family forum.

Hello

Astral Sex is a real thing too its a very "dangerous" thing its not a game to be played as your never sure if that connection made is with "whom" you think your with. Too at times your giving of your body energy flow to others, that too might be able to take your energy in and use it.

This Astral Sex place can take you to the very edge of a cliff, like it did with my now husband Heart. Played with and used in darkness by at the time another member of this site. Took him to the point of one foot literally hanging over a cliff edge ready to jump to his death.


Be careful where one takes things to....make sure your safe.

Lynn

I myself met a dark smoke that was causing me these type of dreams, it took me years to actually find a way to be conscious while in the middle of these dreams, when I finally made it there with my awareness, I saw its true nature, a dark smoke, it was feeding with my energy. In the beginning it was ok but with years I noticed how I am so so depleteated of energy.

I started to fight back, to not give in and I made it, but from time to time, I am caught off-guard. I told myself that I have to fight back and I did and I was able to stop these dreams right when they were happening. You need a strong will.

There is definitely a difference between the astral sex and me just having fun. The energies and the fusion of those energies are just incredible. Like it is really wonderful feeling. But I guess my concern mostly is that who ever or what ever it is expresses itself as someone but I don't believe it is them. Or if it is them it is not a conscious projection. I mean it could be a succubus. but usually malevolent beings drain your energy and you feel tired afterword. This doesn't do this to me. I was thinking maybe I am just connecting to that persons subconscious and somehow it is responding but If that were the case you would think that I could just connect to anyone's subconscious and experience it. But like I said I wasn't the one initiating it. It comes to me. Maybe I am just feeling her enjoying herself like you had mentioned. I really don't know the reality of it. It isn't bothering me at least not at the moment. I don't know. I don't have a real life partner anyway and this is quite fulfilling for me I just have to be sure not to assume it is that person in real life because there is no evidence to support that.

I'll try to be safe but it's like anything occult related. There can be dangers in it all. I don't feel threatened or hurt by it. And like I said before don't feel drained energetically. If I feel harmed I will do what i can to defend myself. I am trying to watch the thoughts and interactions just to see what suggestions are made. I have had astral experiences with people or entities playing games with me before but not to worried about it right now.

I understand a need to defend myself or cut it off if I feel worse off from these encounters. But right now I feel OK. In fact I often feel better after each encounter. I feel more motivated and happier. So I don't think at the current moment it would be beneficial to fight it astrally. I mean what if it is someone that actually cares about me and wants better for me.

Hello Lynn,

Nice reminder.

I prefer from far to go in the soul body, that has no specific form, to explore this world. It is associated to the heart chakra, where we can start to hear the choir of the Goddesses and Gods.

When I travel with what I call the etheric body, associated to the sexual chakra or the astral body associated to the solar plexus chakra, all around seems so fade in comparison. In those lower realms, I feel more like a ghost that is attracted by flaming life force of others. Material things are so fade from there. But I do use this form of travel from time to time, to find lost souls to help them make a step towards the Light.

Yet the golden rule in all of this travelling is to have no fears. If fears you have, fears will realize themselves in those lower forms of travelling.

A simple opinion,

Regards,

From my own personal experience, I would say astral sex really doesn't exists universally speaking. Astral refers to your spiritual body, and the concept of genders is not apart of spiritual entities. You are genderless and lack physical substance. You are more of a goo or floating cloud and most people mentally project themselves in different forms that take shape overtime as their abstractions become more developed using their imagination with interprets for them in order to understand from a personal perspective. The trinity of water is a great analogy to represent this. Water can take the form of ice, liquid, and vapor, and yet remains as being the same molecular compound regardless of what form it is taking.

Sex is a physical concept/phenomenon. When one is born into life as a man or woman it is to help learn and control the emotions of submission/domination, which plays a role in their spiritual development, as your consciousness needs to develop both abilities. Woman tend to be better and stronger and connecting to their spiritual bodies for this reason as you have to submit to your greater self in order to begin your journey into enlightenment. This is where concepts such as twin flame come from, and why woman are more emotional then men. Men that begin to dabble into this will find themselves becoming more feminine by nature design until they learn to control this. If you go to any citadel, traditional church, or synagogue, you will see most priests bowing and taking a submissive pose which helps individuals channel this as a example of being applied to numerous religious sects.

When it comes to your case, it sounds like to me you are going through the awakening stages of what most spiritual community members around these waters call the Kundalini and are beginning your spiritual journey into this plane of existence by connecting to your spiritual guides. I went through years of this believing in this same thing until I sorta came to the ultimate truth overtime with enough experiences. All this being said, to finalize one point, I am not saying that the sensations that you are experiencing are not real. They are. Just when and if you were to see this from a higher perspective, when your ego merges with your high consciousnesses, concepts such as sex, sleep, and even eating are sorta seen as illusions of the human experience. Enjoy it. Have fun. The funniest sensations I felt was when I was mixing the emotions of being terrified with the thrill of the sexual experience, those were some fun times, as mixing those emotions tends to create a incredible feeling of ecstasy, and is the natural release of what drug addicts get addicted to through chemical stimulation that invokes this release unnaturally through finally tuned chemical interactions. Most people don't realize this, but all drugs that are currently on the market are really just spiritual experiences that one goes through. There were some studies on Buddhist monks who took LSD only to find that their brain naturally produced the chemical and the stipulate had no effect on them. This is also the crying point that most people are spiritually deprived, but don't even realize it, because they have no comparison to go off of. A story for another time.

I hope this helps.

It's a demon most likely. That's all it wants though, its self serving. The astral plane matches your normal every day vibration.. which is not very high by comparison to the highest.

So you can mess with beings there if you want but personally they creep me out.

Well what I witnessed/experienced, definitely wasn't negative dark energy, and i'm saying no more, apart from it was part 'of my teaching' as in knowing stuff that goes on - some experiences can be of course, you must all make your own minds up - and take the warning from some here that it can be dark ones playing tricks, but not always... keep those 'vibes' up nice and high...

And keep in close contact with your spiritual support... and prayer is powerful - I know I recovered from a stroke when energy from the universe or the sun hit me, this damaged my aura then hit me again the next morning before it repaired... I was shown this 'and' witnessed repairs being corrected by my Angels' - I seen this work going on all day 'in my mind' as I got the full use of my left arm back again - fully recovered by the next morning, on the bike again as though nothing had happened... Jesus, Holy Spirit, I thank you, and Angel's - we continue to do God's work x

Yes, One-light, well said!

Regards

Thank you Legrand - yes it has to be free will as in personal decisions - we can only advise and learn together...

asearcher - interesting comments of yours - haunted house I think we knew this when you first came on here with the leg bruising in the night, did that stop, I think we solved that didn't we?

Yeah it probably is a demon but hasn't been showing up lately so not to worried about it. It was there for 2 days or so. Must of scared it off when I told it I wanted to get married. ****.

Thats it thisguyscott you tell em - lol... only good ones allowed in 'my space' others be gone...

I'l have another read later, i only read a bit, I been busy helping on MH forums - im not sure its you turning the lights on and off - what do others here think... theres a song i used to play over and over when I was worried about the vibes in my house - love is in air by Paul Young, play it over and over on decent speakers drive it out....raise the vibes in there... watch nice happy things on tv and get some pot plants for the house, plenty of them...

I see reading it through you are not turning the lights off - but when you say you can feel electricity - I can, its feeling energy as in good and bad - energy vibes think of it that way, as it is - when someone has hurt you in the past remember this 'forgive'detach'move on' - this will 'release' any negative energy that's attached to you from the past... live in the now 'this moment' - and focus on that and not what ifs and what was - this way your energy vibes will increase...

Well, there you have it, if you FEEL IT IS NOT them, than just remember this.

Things can happen astrally, half in, half out, or in the mind only, & that can be painful. & if you are not feeling it is them, the person you are meaning to have some sort of attachment to, than yea, be careful. & even in the attachment, be careful.

I get thoughts of the other, and feel their pain, or their pleasure. & now I am learning that it is their attachment through me, that has made me feel these things. That has been helpful, in letting go. Letting go is a process.

& if you feel it is doing you no harm, all the power to you. lol

Just because people on here HAVEN'T experienced those things, does NOT mean it cannot happen, or be another's experience's. Or "their reality"

Say now you tell me you're a dark one, when I was half way through and enjoying it - be gone! 'in a bit though' not quite finished yet....

The only reason I don't think it is her is cause we don't talk in real life. I mean why would she bother me astrally if she doesn't want to talk to me. Other then I do have some good sexual fantasies. lol Who knows maybe she just want to kill me. IDK

You will be SF's expert on this for sure, all the learning you're going through - it'll be in a book one day I think all this, or a film... the old song 'ghost busters' comes to mind with your knowledge - call asearcher 'ghost buster' - ask it if it likes music Paul Young love is in the air, bet it doesn't...

She knows quite a lot this lady on the link, but doesn't know everything as we don't either... I know 'this' its to do with 'energy vibrations' - as we know these lost/trapped spirits like places that are low in energy vibes - have you thought about using 'the power of your mind' to help relocate it to a barn somewhere...

To do this you would have to visit a dark big old building that would suit, take a snapshot of what it looks like 'in your mind' so you can visualise it in meditation, and visualise it being there, or trance teleporting there - with mind power, and no one here can say this wouldn't work, because this would be new territory, transporting a spirit elsewhere may/may not be possible - but the mind is powerful...

Best not to think of the whens and hows when this all started, but 'raise your vibes 'in you' and that of the property... lose any negative energy that's attached to you from the past with forgive'detach'move on...

This is such a difficult one to advise on, because really with what we've discussed a few months ago, it should have moved on by now... use your mind in meditation, see if you can communicate, find out why its here, and remind it how beautiful it is in the light, heaven is a beautiful place, we were all there before coming here on our journeys - we've just forgotten...

Keep us informed with what you do - It might be a good idea to create a new thread on another page or we'll be told we're going off topic - if you do, put link on the new one to here, and one from this so all interested can be updated with what's going on... good luck x

Fun times.

Fun times. Thanks for sharing.

No idea, what you're going on about.