Why have I started manifesting, materialising?
 

I have written about manifestation/materialising with women and my perceived bad luck.

I have tried everything spiritual and analytical, self development.

In the last 2 weeks, I've noticed those potential friendships with women and with women are materialising into my experience like magic, I feel better, wearing good clothes, I am thinking positive thoughts. It happens on the train, on the train station.

I am more positive and possibly in the past I've been feeling sad inside and thinking every minute about experiencing those friendships and how it may come about for days in a week.

Also I have read that even if I think positive thoughts, if inside I am feeling anxious, not confident, the universe will not materialise those potential women/friendships into my experience.

However I'm not sure why I'm manifesting these things now, which women, friendships with women are materialising into my experience. It did seem like the universe was blocking these into my experience for years. Even at times in the past I felt I was feeling good.

Law of attraction dictates like attracts like.

Just my view - it's human to have anxieties, worries; we can do our best to minimise them but it's often the way with relationships when we're looking for a someone as a friend or whatever because we're involving someone else, a person in their own right with their own tastes, ideas and needs. It's right to stay optimistic and expect as little as we can of them so if it's going to be good, compromises will be made as one goes along.

Important that one never 'gets to know' someone unless they live with them or spend the majority of free time with them so the pair can acclimatise to the habits of the other. It's in small ways - the way we live - that the problems often start. That, and not respecting the other's need for space of their own.

So if you can stay optimistic and allow others to be as they are things are likely to go better.

Good luck.

Ps. I'm a bit anti-the LoA except in the broadest terms; If someone's depressive or mentally weak they'll attract people of similar ilk. Likewise, if they're outgoing and optimistic, such people will come into their sphere.
I'd dislike it to go deeper than that. Attract someone like me? No thanks! I'd be bored in no time!
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Thank you very much for your comments and insights Lorelyen.

You just said it right there ...This is why...above.:icon_cheers:

Thank you Miss Hepburn.

I have been trying to think and analyse why the universe did not manifest these type of circumstances for me.

Maybe its because I did not like myself, maybe internally I was still anxious, despite thinking I was confident, maybe throughout the day I was thinking of past hurts which I have been.