Thinking too much about sex
 

Or maybe I should say, I am unable to find enough satisfying thoughts that are not of sexual nature. Which is really getting annoying because there are areas in life I would like to give more energy and attention to but feel prohibited. It's as if I am in a prison of this sexual circus.

Now, one thing does help, and that is smoking weed, whereupon I immediately find it enjoyable to think thoughts of a much higher nature so to say, gaining insights and perspective. I also feel the energy in the body alot more. But that's illegal here so I can only do it limited. Is there a way to get the same effect without weed? I have alot of dreams where I get or smoke weed, maybe it is telling me to focus on this effect? But how to achieve it?

Also I notice that there indeed seems to be a pairing of the lower and higher energy centers. One annoying thing I often get is that the higher chakras feel "dry" while the lower ones are active. I should be able to get energy from the lower ones to energize the higher ones but can't really find a good way to do that, except perhaps think sexual thought but that is not leading me anywhere.

Hello

We do have a rule on the site about drug discussion but I will allow this question. I do not feel it has anything to do with substances more its that conscious and unconscious side of you that puts forth the thoughts.

Sex is energy and it in the act of having it is physical in the demands it puts on the body. Maybe focus that energy into something else, like going for a bike ride or a walk ?

We are sexual beings, but that does not define all that we are. You are the one putting yourself in the Three Ring Circus as you hold the power to re focus the intensions from experience you have.

Lynn

Sure. I recommend self-hypnosis. You could also try prayer, meditation, lucid dreaming (obe, astral projection).

There are also practices that transmute sexual energy into other forms, for example mental energy.

Actively fighting against desires is usually counter-productive. The more you try to fight it with your weed or with some sort of spiritual practice the more it will be a battle in your mind and you will lose. You will only make your taboo more exciting to break. Making yourself dependent upon weed or anything else just to get rid of desire is also a danger to yourself.

Focus your attention on different things, don't do them 'to get rid of desire' but for other reasons. I don't believe having sexual desires makes you ''less spiritual''. It's natural to have such desires, it would be more worrying if you didn't have them because it could indicate a health issue.

If you feel that it's coming from you but somehow it's not you,chances are to be something else that feeds from sexual energies.

Oh my.:redface:

The more I see your posts the less I understand how I got mad at you the first time we spoke.

As stated yes, if you try to get it off your mind by doing something else, it won't work because your mind will resist. You should have a spot, in your day of like.. 5 or 10 minutes, where you'll allow yourself to have your thoughts. If you allow yourself to feel it, you will not constantly "need" to think about it, because you allowed yourself to think about it. Also, while not an expert, I have a relative who's addicted to weed for around 20 years now. Let me tell you, it's not because it is deemed as "soft drug" that it is. Long term it can cause paranoïa for example, not when in withdrawal but when consuming it. Also, having sexual desire does not make you less spiritual at all. It's perfectly healthy to have desires, we all do each on different levels.

Sounds very much like an overactive 2nd chakra. There is a reason for this. It's not uncommon, although I think it's mostly men who have sex / porn addiction.
Many people have sexual hiccups, many of which go all the way back to past lives. This is why many need a lot of sex OR to experiment with sex a lot, which includes kinky sex and BDSM. In a way that's okay, it's something that needs to be healed and up to a point this could be achieved by doing these things. Up to a point.
BUT... if it gets out of control -and it sounds like it is-... then it's best to try and do something about it, at the very least find the cause.

There are also cases where people have a sexual issue because of something that happened or was said to them at a (very) early age. We won't consciously remember it anymore but it is stored in the subconscious which is what we act upon 95% of the time.
This can be as simple as an adult telling a little boy -like toddler- age to not play with himself because it's dirty or something along those veins. Toddler boys sometimes get hard-ons and in their innocence, and probably because it feels nice, they can sit there in the middle of a room playing with themselves, even when there are other people there because they have no awareness of it being 'dirty' or bad and they have no notion of sexual feelings really.
Something like that won't actively be remembered BUT will be active in the subconscious and influence the now older man in his feelings and behaviours.
It can be THAT simple...
Similar stuff can happen during teenage years by things parents say (their view of sex) or their reaction to you wanting to have sex or an unpleasant sexual encounter at that age. "Sexual" including getting rejected, related to kissing, fiddling, anything really.

You can seek help, like a counsellor who's specialised in this, but I'd also consult a reader/healer who can do other things than a counsellor and possibly also find what the cause is AND heal that. And someone like that who's good can work a treat! It will cost you, but I'd say it'd be worth it if you get your life back. Plus, not needing grass anymore will save money too :p

You can also find an EEM therapist (Eden Energy Medicine) who can trace out of balance energies in the body and energetic bodies and restore these. Could also help a lot and there's plenty of EEM therapist worldwide, even in the US.

Or find a qualified RTT™ therapist. Can have you cured in 15-30 minutes.

No matter what...
GO SEEK HELP!

Has this improved for you? Is it in phases or all the time?

You can think about your dreams and the things you are passionate about. What is fulfilling to you. What gives you a feeling of "ahhh I'm glad I'm here" or "ahh I'm glad I'm doing this" (besides sex 🙂)

I like how you are wanting to bring balance to your higher chakras. The heart chakra is the mediator so if it does happen instead of making yourself feel shame or guilt about it see if activating the heart chakra with the sexual energy helps bring balance to the higher ones.

What I try to do is put it off till the end of the day or use it as a reward once I'm done all the tasks I need to get done for the day.

I do physical stuff and I am aware of how the energy flows and it is very pleasing. However, sometimes I have to focus on issues and the energy kind of doesn't let me because it is swarming me with what pertains to the sexual. Smoking weed just gives me space to focus on other things but I've done it very rarely it's in no way an addiction - although I would gladly smoke every day if I could! :smile:


Yes that is basically what I am looking for. My lower chakras are at some moments very energized, while my 6 and 7 the almost always feel blocked or "dry". As I have read these chakras balance each other out, and I suspect there are certain thoughts that do this, but I seem to be unable to find them.


I don't try to fight it however imagine that it's raining all the time and you would like to sometime go out when it's not and do stuff you can't do when it's raining. So basically the energy and thoughts from the lower chakras are kind of in the way. I understand the energy has to be transformed somehow but I can't get a clear directive about it.


Yes I agree and on top of that I feel sick after having orgasms so this is not even an option for me. The problem is that I don't really know what to focus on. So you're saying I should do an obe, but how do I do that?


Yes it is overactive at times and like I said my two higher chakras feel dry so I assume some balance between them would've been good. I suspect I need to keep focus on something that I am not currently getting.


Well, actually, I do have a character I intend to embody, and so thinking of becoming this character does open some blocks in the crown chakra as well as activate my heart chakra. So this must be the right direction.

Perhaps a lack of faith in the dreams that I have has caused some of the blocks. I read that goalsetting is part of the crown chakra.

Any more tips or suggestions here would be great.

Thanks.