What to do with negative energies?
I'm putting it here because I think it pertains to the loa somehow.
What I mean with negative energies is for instance someone does something that makes you mad. You're gonna have to deal with that energy in your body now. I recently discovered you can send the energy back to them. So instead of going around with a bad feeling because of something they have done, they can have it instead. I have no idea if they actually get it but it feels better intending it so I'm pretty sure you can use these energy to manifest as well but it's not very comfortable. Of course you can use it to just go and beat them that would work too. Any other suggestions? |
Maybe manifesting that energy is still the best way to go? Because that way it will take physical form otherwise it will just keep tormenting people's energy body.
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It does seem to go to send them to God as well.
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Its best to do away with negative energies and live a positive and healthy life. Love is the energy that attracts hate is the energy that denies. The greater your love the more blessed you will be universally. Love is the positive, healthy energy and is lawful, righteous and just . Hate is wrong and is a negative energy. Amen
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I believe that getting angry, no matter how justified you think it is, will materialize in your life, into more reasons to get angry, eventually fearful. So, don't do it!
V. Zeland, in his "Trunsurfing" book, likens those sources of negativity "pendulums". This is how he advises to deal with them: Be prepared for the pendulums to provoke you. When you find yourself in an unpleasant situation or when you receive bad news, you are naturally thrown off balance. In the standard scenario, you ought to worry, be afraid, run away, lose heart or express your dissatisfaction or irritation. Now, do the opposite. Offer an abnormal response. Smash the script and try substitution: replace fear with confidence, despondency with enthusiasm, indignation with indifference and irritation with joy. The essence of the pendulum game is to pull you off balance. You have to break the rules of the game intentionally. Do whatever you like, just as long as it is not what people expect and then, victory will be yours. |
Anger serves a function. All emotions serve a function.
It tells our body when we are percieving a threat. Anger is a cover emotion for fear and powerlessness in a situation. Without fear and anger, we would not know love. Where do you feel scared and powerless? Once you can sit with that sense of powerlessness without resistance to it, you can ask yourself what loving actions you can align to and move yourself towards peace. Anger only fuels more anger when we deny ourselves or feel denied the opportunity to delve into the experience of powerlessness underneath it. Love is an action which can grow and move once that powerlessness has been acknowledged, accepted and allowed in presence as it moves within and through the body. |
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Turn a blind eye to negativity and give it no power. The law sides with love.. Amen . |
If someone does something bad that disadvantages you, yes, retribution is good. At least it makes you feel better. Much occult work is about this.
But if it doesn't affect you but you just don't like what they've done; their opinion, remember it is just a difference. Save the anger for another day. . |
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Instead of getting "mad" and focusing your anger back at the person, why not examine what exactly triggered the anger you feel. If someone steps on your toes and it hurts (literally) you speak up and they apologize, yes? Or if they don't, that could cause anger. You speak up and express your feelings. If you think your spouse is cheating on you, that could create feelings of anger. Do you confront your spouse and express your anger, then make a decision on whether to continue the relationship, or do you hold it in, plan revenge, etc.? If someone cuts you off in traffic does it ruin your whole day, or do you get over it in a few minutes and move on, remembering that you accidentally cut someone off in traffic once or twice? When you feel anger, just throwing that energy back at someone who has walked away does not really address the anger, and you will find it popping up over and over again, when you will eventually express it inappropriately. That LOA theory does not have anything to do with what you have described in experiencing anger. |
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If you used commas appropriately it would be easier to understand what you are saying. "Love is the energy that attracts, hate is the energy that denies." Not Love is the energy that attracts hate.... OK. off my grammar soap box. Now to thrash you over your bliss bunny wishful thinking. You cannot deny, repress, suppress or ignore negativity. Doing that puts you in a positivity deficit. You feel it, you express it, you move on. You never chastise people for "being negative", listen to what they are actually saying and consider the possibility that your reaction to what you consider negativity is a problem in you, not them. Denial will only make stuff come up closer and closer until it is in your face so that you have to acknowledge it. If someone is constantly hurting you, you don't just let them, you speak up. That is not negativity, that is responding to a situation that needs to be addressed. If someone expresses how they feel, it is valid, don't negate their feeling because they make you uncomfortable. If they are constantly depressed, you can walk away "because they are too negative and you don't need that" or you can try to figure out how to help them. I know your choice in that will be dependent on how much you care about that person. The whole world is made up of positive and negative ions, electrical charges etc. You have to learn balance. |
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