kindheart
14-12-2010, 08:42 AM
Hey there,
I've been reading a few of these posts... and I wonder, how does one know if a lover (or as I see most often in these threads: ex lover) is a twin flame, or simply that... a lover/ ex lover? I think especially in the case of ex lovers, since heart aches are so painful under most circumstances, it could easily be misinterpreted as a twin flame, no?
There has been these back and forths between me and another guy and although I know that logically he isn't good for me, my heart loves him so much... everytime we get too close we run away from each other.. well mainly he does. And I get sooo angry and hurt every time, but it only takes a few days for me to forget about it and long for him again, and so far he too. Many syncronicities have happened in the past... i think this time the split was final, unfortunately. We never truly got the chance to get in a romantic relationship because there were always obstacles. It's complicated. I had some signs that he may be my twin flame...but could he be? and what would that mean? Or maybe he simply is just a guy with too many issues, and me who wasn't deal well enough with them and being too insecure. Hard to say, really... It is a beautiful concept though
I've been reading a few of these posts... and I wonder, how does one know if a lover (or as I see most often in these threads: ex lover) is a twin flame, or simply that... a lover/ ex lover? I think especially in the case of ex lovers, since heart aches are so painful under most circumstances, it could easily be misinterpreted as a twin flame, no?
There has been these back and forths between me and another guy and although I know that logically he isn't good for me, my heart loves him so much... everytime we get too close we run away from each other.. well mainly he does. And I get sooo angry and hurt every time, but it only takes a few days for me to forget about it and long for him again, and so far he too. Many syncronicities have happened in the past... i think this time the split was final, unfortunately. We never truly got the chance to get in a romantic relationship because there were always obstacles. It's complicated. I had some signs that he may be my twin flame...but could he be? and what would that mean? Or maybe he simply is just a guy with too many issues, and me who wasn't deal well enough with them and being too insecure. Hard to say, really... It is a beautiful concept though