Ghost following my cousin

[Kindapsy Chick]

I realized I posted in the wrong section X_X BUT give me your thoughts.

I get so SCARED of this ghost that's following my cousin. When he stays over at my place, everyone gets a sense of stress and discomfort. I wasn't scared of her (the ghost), at first, but the next time they stayed, everything felt more unsettling and wrong. I can't sleep with them here.

I've seen her, too. She's looks almost tangible, dirty-grey/white dress and face with no facial features, and long black hair (like Ring or Grudge, aside from no face). She literally floats around, feet off the ground, and she almost feels living and breathing. On several occasions, she has moved things, even me. If I can't see her in that form, she has a dark grey aura, I guess.

Turns out his family knew about the girl. Apparently, when my cousin has a tantrum, things in their house start moving and falling. They think it's his mother's friend helping her discipline the boy, but I'm not sure. No one knows who she is.

I fear for him. I want to help him, but his family doesn't seem to get it. He's getting much worse in behavior and conduct, but they don't really help him. Any advice? Thanks.

I realize I probably can't help him much, but...idk, lol.

[SpiritCarrier]

I posted in your other thread but this is much more detailed so my advice would be to ask her who she is and what she wants? It is likely that she needs some help and isn't sure how to ask for it. I have helped many spirits and usually when they become this negative it is because they are stuck in this form and way of life until being helped. She is probably disgruntled with this way of existence, and who could blame her, she may have been like this for years even centuries. If you can help her then do so, she has chosen your cousin for a reason and it could be that she identifies with his tantrums, she could even be the source of some of his misbehavior meaning that she stresses him out so he acts out. Make sure you explain to her that her presence is harming your cousin and that she needs to leave and that you want to help her if you can. She may be able to articulate at that point what she needs.

If you can find no way to help her then proceed with the cleansing. You need to buy dried white sage and burn it all around him. Let the sage do the work. Do a complete cleansing asking the powers that be to help rid your cousin of this ghost. I have never seen any ghost able to withstand white sage. I wish you and your family well.

Peace and Light,
SC

[Kindapsy Chick]

I posted in your other thread but this is much more detailed so my advice would be to ask her who she is and what she wants? It is likely that she needs some help and isn't sure how to ask for it. I have helped many spirits and usually when they become this negative it is because they are stuck in this form and way of life until being helped. She is probably disgruntled with this way of existence, and who could blame her, she may have been like this for years even centuries. If you can help her then do so, she has chosen your cousin for a reason and it could be that she identifies with his tantrums, she could even be the source of some of his misbehavior meaning that she stresses him out so he acts out. Make sure you explain to her that her presence is harming your cousin and that she needs to leave and that you want to help her if you can. She may be able to articulate at that point what she needs.

If you can find no way to help her then proceed with the cleansing. You need to buy dried white sage and burn it all around him. Let the sage do the work. Do a complete cleansing asking the powers that be to help rid your cousin of this ghost. I have never seen any ghost able to withstand white sage. I wish you and your family well.

Peace and Light,
SC

Hey, SC, thank you for taking the time. I feel that she is the source of stress. I shall have to invite him and see if I can say something, but I worry if that'll put me in danger. In my experience, if I play around with negative spirits, it puts me in trouble :(

I will try to do white sage if nothing else, but I don't know if his family will be open to it. It's a very odd proposition to many. Where could I buy white sage?

Thanks again, SC

[SpiritCarrier]

Amazon carries it if you don't have a naturalist shop where you live.


You don't need the smudge sticks you need the loose leaves. What you will do is put a bunch of the leaves in a glass bowl, something not to deep. Light the leaves and let the smoke permeate the air as you move the bowl around the boy. Front, back, up and down all the while asking the powers that be to help rid the boy of the spirit. Continue to do this until the sage has finished burning, then bury the burnt leaves in a hole in your back yard or somewhere safe. If you have a dog that might dig up the leaves put them in a small plastic bag and then bury them and place a rock on top of the spot. That should do the trick.

May the Powers be with you.

Peace and Light,
SC

[desert rat]

You need to find out if this is a real ghost or a thought form generated by your cousin . If this is a ghost let her know that she is dead and its time to go to the light , ect.

[Kindapsy Chick]

I forgot to mention. My cousin used to say he sees devils from when he was a little boy. Like, 6, more or less. He would see his sister with red eyes, or see scary faces appear on car windows, dark figures, many things...sounds like something out of the devil child movie X_X

Some say he's just a kid, but that's pretty darned young to be thinking of things like that.

I don't know if he conjures them from his mind, or somehow, the dark entities are drawn to him.

[umbridge]

Nono...no dark entities.. definitely not. Actually all beings are good..some just dont have so much light in them..we are all light beings.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cuY2DQhoMg0

First of all, find anyone who could deal with these souls. Energy healer, medium, psychic. Do not be afraid. The more you feel afraid, the more you are gonna attract them with your low vibration. Think about good things: love, light, peace, people you love etc.

Maybe these "lost" souls have something to tell to you or your cousin.

Be strong.

[bedfordhouse]

Nono...no dark entities.. definitely not. Actually all beings are good..some just dont have so much light in them..we are all light beings.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cuY2DQhoMg0

First of all, find anyone who could deal with these souls. Energy healer, medium, psychic. Do not be afraid. The more you feel afraid, the more you are gonna attract them with your low vibration. Think about good things: love, light, peace, people you love etc.

Maybe these "lost" souls have something to tell to you or your cousin.

Be strong.
I disagree with you on that, not all entities are good. I've got some in my house that go out of their way to make life awful for us. We try to ignore them but they just keep on bugging the hell out of us. There is not one good one in the whole lot.

[Enchanted_DreamFaerie]

I'm sorry that this spirit is bothering you're cousin & I hope you end up getting this problem resolved. Try the smudge sticks and hopefully it'll clear out the spirit. If worst comes to worst tell you're cousin to go to church to tell them about this spirit that's following you're cousin around and see what they suggest to you.

[Kindapsy Chick]

UPDATE:

I finally tried talking to the spirit, this Easter, since I've gained more experience. I've sent many spirits to the light, by now, and I'm doing what I usually do to convince them (I wrote about this on thread). But she's very resistant. I even made her come down to tears, and when I tell her to go to the light, it's as if there are literally strings attached to her feet, and she really doesn't want to go.

She's full of anger and hatred for everything and is comfortable in that state. I wonder how I'll bring up this sage idea to them >_<

[Zoclora]

Well cleansing your house with sage isn't bad at all! Native americans and even some other religions use sage to help cate out negative energies or spirits that may pose a threat to your and/or other peoples well being, including spirits who don't pose a threat at all just likes to hang around your home because they feel safe there.

It sounds to me, this spirit is not evil put has some issues possibly from her life here in the past. I know I had one like that, that seemed like a bad, evil spirit but really he was just mad and needed some TLC. I could explain to them whats going on, and if they don't lesson then I would wait a day that they are out but the spirit is there (meaning that he will be there as well) and smoke out the house but with only love and wanting to help in your heart. This will at least calm her down enough if not rid of her. If she's a true negative spirit she will run out of the house and possibly never come back, but cents it seems she's been around for a while, she may have attached her self to him, which explains why he may act the ways he does. When spirits feel insecure, just like us living beings, we try to find something to either help comfort us by us going to some one (mom,dad,sister,husband ext) or going to something close to us that brings us that "wall" of protection. Im guessing thats what she is doing, and at times its almost like trying to get a child to let go of mom for the first time to go to the first day of school.

So what Im saying is, even if you smudge the house with her in it, she may not leave but it may calm her down. You need for him to tell her that every thing is ok, to let go of him, and for her to basically stop attaching to him. But you have to be firm, just like a parent with child, and after she calms down, then try to help her into the light. If she still refuses, there might be a resin. Such as she hasn't let go of something from her past, she isn't ready because she felt it was to soon, or maybe she has some personal issues such as fear of the other side. Yes, there are spirits who are good, but fear the light because according to one that I helped over as an example, she said "I don't know if I can see my children again. If I cross over, does that mean I can never come back?" So you see, though they are in spirit a lot of them don't know any more then we do some times less. And if this is the case find out what those fears are and try to reinsure her that every thing will be ok, and that all her pain will be gone and she will not be trapped any where, that she will be more free.

If theres one thing spirits are afraid of, that is feeling or being trapped. I hope this helps.

[Kindapsy Chick]

Sorry if I took too long to reply. Thanks for the descriptive answer :hug:

. . . its almost like trying to get a child to let go of mom for the first time to go to the first day of school.

That's exactly it! From what I could tell, she really wants to get better. The only thing is, she seemed very insecure about the very thought of leaving my cousin. She identifies with his messed up situation and somehow believes she can help him. I think it's because she had a very messed up life. However, she's going the wrong way about it.

I've never directly conversed with my cousin about the girl, except I told him one is following him. He lies about her, constantly, saying she exists and then acting like she doesn't. I guess I could tell him to tell her to let go, but I'm not sure if he'll take it seriously. In fact, his whole family doesn't take it, seriously. I'm the only one who really gets it.