cloud9
21-08-2016, 04:04 AM
I'm not sure which category to place this under, but I placed it here because I don't always get the protection I need. Let me explain.
This is a long story about what happened in high school so I'll just say that I had a bullying problem. I never want to see anyone from there again. The other day I took a family member's kid to a local shelter to see the animals. All the cat and dog rooms looked the same with glass walls and unlocked doors. Although I saw a few cat rooms with cats roaming without cages, I passed by because I assumed the doors were locked. After passing them a few times, the kid noticed several other kids playing with friendly cats in those rooms and told me we could play in there. So, I checked to see if the door was unlocked in one of the cat rooms. It was so I assumed it was open to the public like the rest of the unlocked look alike rooms. The kid (*using "kid" term so I don't need to write name) had cats at home so knew how to handle them. When we walked near the back of the room, a woman sitting on the concrete outside the cat room next door kept giving us a dirty look (and I think she laughed at times). When I motioned if everything was ok, she still kept giving me a dirty look. If she didn't want me in the room, she should have verbally communicated it to me or given me a hand gesture to leave. I was confused because she looked like someone snobby from my high school, but I wasn't sure if it was just someone who looked like her. Or I don't know if she was giving me a dirty look because she didn't want me in the room or if she was just someone from my high school carrying on the immaturity. I also didn't know if it was someone who had issues to act unprofessional like that. I just ignored her since I already tried to communicate with her, but she didn't respond.
All the kid did was pet the cats from time to time or watch them play. Maybe she kept staring to make sure we didn't harm the cats, but she didn't have to give us a constant dirty look. Not that we were in there a long time, but I got tired of her dirty looks so I moved to the front of the room while the kid continued to pet a cat near the back of the room. At this moment, the kid accidentally stepped on a small paper plate of mashed cat food on the ground. Yep...it got on her shoes. So, I took a tissue out of my purse and wiped it off. Then, I left the room for a second to throw the tissue in a garbage can in the hall directly across the room. As I re-entered the room, a different staff member told me we were not allowed in the room. I told her that I was sorry, I didn't know that. I really didn't know since the door was unlocked and kids were playing in other cat rooms. As we walked away and entered the dog area, I felt someone staring at me so I turned my head and that staff worker was staring suspicously at me like I was a shoplifter. I don't know if she was one of the staff members the staff member who gave me dirty looks was hanging out with outside. I didn't mind her telling me we weren't allowed in the room since that's what I was trying to ask the other staff member who kept giving us dirty looks. But, I didn't think it was right for her to stare at me like a shoplifter if we didn't intentionally do anything wrong.
I'm not into cats so I didn't even care be in that room. It was the kid's birthday who was having the greatest time being with the cats. What I am saying is everything I did that day was all for the kid. Nothing was for me, but I feel like I was punished that day if this was a girl from my high school still giving me dirty looks years later. It's like why do bad things happen when I'm trying to do good for others? If it was her, I don't know if she will notify others she keeps in touch with that I'm so dumb I went into a room I wasn't allowed to go into and my kid (she probably thought it was my kid, but it's not) dumb like me for stepping in cat food.
I don't feel protected when I see people who acted like I wasn't good enough in the past and they receive verification that I'm an idiot who doesn't deserve their respect.
This is a long story about what happened in high school so I'll just say that I had a bullying problem. I never want to see anyone from there again. The other day I took a family member's kid to a local shelter to see the animals. All the cat and dog rooms looked the same with glass walls and unlocked doors. Although I saw a few cat rooms with cats roaming without cages, I passed by because I assumed the doors were locked. After passing them a few times, the kid noticed several other kids playing with friendly cats in those rooms and told me we could play in there. So, I checked to see if the door was unlocked in one of the cat rooms. It was so I assumed it was open to the public like the rest of the unlocked look alike rooms. The kid (*using "kid" term so I don't need to write name) had cats at home so knew how to handle them. When we walked near the back of the room, a woman sitting on the concrete outside the cat room next door kept giving us a dirty look (and I think she laughed at times). When I motioned if everything was ok, she still kept giving me a dirty look. If she didn't want me in the room, she should have verbally communicated it to me or given me a hand gesture to leave. I was confused because she looked like someone snobby from my high school, but I wasn't sure if it was just someone who looked like her. Or I don't know if she was giving me a dirty look because she didn't want me in the room or if she was just someone from my high school carrying on the immaturity. I also didn't know if it was someone who had issues to act unprofessional like that. I just ignored her since I already tried to communicate with her, but she didn't respond.
All the kid did was pet the cats from time to time or watch them play. Maybe she kept staring to make sure we didn't harm the cats, but she didn't have to give us a constant dirty look. Not that we were in there a long time, but I got tired of her dirty looks so I moved to the front of the room while the kid continued to pet a cat near the back of the room. At this moment, the kid accidentally stepped on a small paper plate of mashed cat food on the ground. Yep...it got on her shoes. So, I took a tissue out of my purse and wiped it off. Then, I left the room for a second to throw the tissue in a garbage can in the hall directly across the room. As I re-entered the room, a different staff member told me we were not allowed in the room. I told her that I was sorry, I didn't know that. I really didn't know since the door was unlocked and kids were playing in other cat rooms. As we walked away and entered the dog area, I felt someone staring at me so I turned my head and that staff worker was staring suspicously at me like I was a shoplifter. I don't know if she was one of the staff members the staff member who gave me dirty looks was hanging out with outside. I didn't mind her telling me we weren't allowed in the room since that's what I was trying to ask the other staff member who kept giving us dirty looks. But, I didn't think it was right for her to stare at me like a shoplifter if we didn't intentionally do anything wrong.
I'm not into cats so I didn't even care be in that room. It was the kid's birthday who was having the greatest time being with the cats. What I am saying is everything I did that day was all for the kid. Nothing was for me, but I feel like I was punished that day if this was a girl from my high school still giving me dirty looks years later. It's like why do bad things happen when I'm trying to do good for others? If it was her, I don't know if she will notify others she keeps in touch with that I'm so dumb I went into a room I wasn't allowed to go into and my kid (she probably thought it was my kid, but it's not) dumb like me for stepping in cat food.
I don't feel protected when I see people who acted like I wasn't good enough in the past and they receive verification that I'm an idiot who doesn't deserve their respect.