My brother passed away in August last year. I have felt him around but not dreamed of him since, until last night. IN the dream, whatever I was doing just melted away and I was in what looked like an old school hall - it was dark, all I could see were rows of wooden chairs facing the same way (presumably the stage as it would in a school). All chairs were empty apart from the one in front of me where my brother sat, facing the front. This was very vivid.
The thing is, he looked sad, and although I can't remember details of what he said, he was disappointed with me. Immediately after this meeting, I was in bed with a stranger, sleeping, although he wasn't a stranger in my dream. I was cuddling up to this man to wake him up because I was scared. This is what I would usually do in the middle of the night to my husband when spooked
Although this meeting with my brother - like I said, everything melted away (I swear there was sound too) - was vivid, I don't think we had eye contact. I don't know why but I have always thought that not having eye contact with a deceased loved on in a dream meant this was a psychological and not a spiritual dream. But I have no idea where that idea came from.
Anyone like to shed any light on this please? I would hate to think my brother is sad in spirit, or disappointed with me in any way. He was so clear.