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Old 11-11-2017, 02:54 AM
Nerina Nerina is offline
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Question No signs from dead brother ...

Hello everyone, I am here for some help and advice.
My 21 year old brother died 10 days back due to an accident. His death was so sudden that the news came onto our family as a terrible heart shattering shock. He died in different city..however he was buried within the radius of our home the day next. It's been more than a week and I've been waiting for some sort of contact from him- maybe a sign, a dream or a sighting perhaps? I am his elder sister and we shared this beautiful friendship where we could go on talking for hours. I miss him dearly and I keep on trying to reach out to him ..talking to him directly..or while meditating - but in vain. Am I being impatient? Is there any other way I can reach out to him? Please help.
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Old 11-11-2017, 05:50 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Losing someone we love is the hardest thing in the world to go through especially someone so young. Would you consider seeking out the services of a Medium who might be able to get in touch with your brother?
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Old 11-11-2017, 09:53 PM
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Give it time. I lost a family member whom I was particularly close with and I wanted a sign from them to be sure that they crossed over. I expected something before the funeral but when none came I felt a bit cheated. A couple months later I got a got one and I was thankful it came when it did. Right now you're still in shock so even if your brother was trying to communicate you may not be open to receive the message.
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Old 12-11-2017, 01:37 AM
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I am sorry for your loss when someone passes sudden they normally go into what we call a hospital.so they can Heal and come to terms with where they are. some people come through quick others take longer. but time has no meaning in the spirit world,
what we see as days or months are only minutes to them. be a little patient and I'm sure you will have signs that your brother is around you.

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Old 12-11-2017, 03:06 AM
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I feel that you do not have to be concerned, he will contact you and your family. Try not to let your grief get in the way of being open to his contacting you. I get the sense that he cares for you very much.
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Old 13-11-2017, 04:09 AM
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It gives me a sense of relief thinking that he is under healing process right now. Thank you for that. I think I'll be able to move on better if he reaches out to me somehow...he had such a zeal to life that his death is almost unacceptable. I am willing to wait for as long as it takes..
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Old 13-11-2017, 04:14 AM
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Would you consider seeking out the services of a Medium who might be able to get in touch with your brother?

Only if there were well known mediums where I am from. Online could be an option but I dont know if I would find anyone reliable?
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Old 19-11-2017, 06:25 PM
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sorry for yore loss
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Old 19-11-2017, 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Nerina
Hello everyone, I am here for some help and advice.
My 21 year old brother died 10 days back due to an accident. His death was so sudden that the news came onto our family as a terrible heart shattering shock. He died in different city..however he was buried within the radius of our home the day next. It's been more than a week and I've been waiting for some sort of contact from him- maybe a sign, a dream or a sighting perhaps? I am his elder sister and we shared this beautiful friendship where we could go on talking for hours. I miss him dearly and I keep on trying to reach out to him ..talking to him directly..or while meditating - but in vain. Am I being impatient? Is there any other way I can reach out to him? Please help.


Hello

First off my heart goes out to you and your family over your loss.

It can take time for contact to be heard and felt, more so at times with a sudden death due to an accident. At times the Spirit needs that time to settle into being passed and to connect to the new transition of being energy and not body. This is normal and the time frame is different for everyone that passes. Common rule of thumb is 3 - 6 months.

What I can assure you is that he did cross over I as a Medium do not feel that he did not make a crossing. He was well loved that feeling abounds, and he will look in when he is ready. For some reason a vibration on a phone, that has no message seems to be a contact way that might show.

I know that you miss the physical and as sad as a loss is we all have our time come when we are called to do other work. I can only imagine getting such news.

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