It's difficult to believe these things happen by accident.
A certain type of people (bringing the same situations) keep cropping up in my life, too - and darn annoying it is!
Clearly it's a "patience" lesson for me, and I do try to be so, but even being patient doesn't seem to help.
Maybe being a victim is my fated way of trying to guide certain persons into kinder behaviour?
One way or another - I just hope it's doing both
of us good.