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Old 22-07-2017, 12:56 AM
san16969 san16969 is offline
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our planned life path,do you beleive its true

I'm not sure if this will post this is my 3rd attempt lol

i would like to explain my story how ive come to find this forum

do you believe our lifes are already mapped out for us?
our children ? our illnesses and death?

i will explain i believe in them all due to my life experiences which i did deny happening to be at a stage now being seriously ill and having no choice but to now realise what i had been shown my whole life yet it didn't register

when i was very young even as young as 2 i just new there was tragic , i cried at everything that was hurt of died killed etc, i didn't know though at that young age really what death really was so how was i so heart broken, my soul though did this i now realise

please bear with long post, but my possible answers that could explain or help someone else

i knew also that nothing interested me except the meaning of life, i recall always being in a world of my own couldn't grasp school except sunday school were i was interested or r e god jesus life nature all that interested me

anyway growing up i lost this way

my experiences that have been trying to show me guide me etc didn't click, i ended up were everything to me was black and white we were dead when we died and that was that

i then at the age of 16 had a visit while at work feom someone that could read palms (bear with) she refused to read mine out if the whole class, i never questioned this because again it was over my head as we say and i thought she was nuts to believe she could in the 1st place

then i ended up at the coast when i was 27 with my hubby and friends who wasnted a palm reading , i again thought they were nuts yet something my gut feeling which i have always had yet not registered and the knowing again that hadn't registered decided to have mine done reluctantly

i did explain i had been refused before , she told me i hadn't the longiest life line and i was going to be seriously ill due to having children it was an it just around the corner

i at this time thought she was talking about my cesarian i had at the age of 23, my story of my son i have 3 all complicated births my youngiest was cesarian we didn't have long to live and i was warned not to have any more

so heres me again yeh what ever

i had been started to be ill and got iller and iller, i have been ill all my childrens lifes but still not registered

one day my sis came and asked if i wanted to go for a spirit reading again i said no because i thought she was nuts but my husband at the time decided to go

on his returm he asked me to listen to the tape she asked my name who i was and said my granddads name his nickname and his message to me was he is my guardian i am his angel

this story.. unbeknown to me until after this reading my mum had to take me everyday to see my granddad or he would be upset, my granddad had been ill for few year, he then asked my mum if he could take me away with them on holiday my dad refused eventually he had nagged and pleaded that much they let me go, he passed away the 2nd night

so anyway the confirmation

the morning after the reading was a leaflet through the post that caught my eye, it was of a st Christopher necklace i then turned it over and it read, my name may your guardian angel watch over and protect you always love my granddads name , yep big big awakening , i ordered this and went to tell and show my nan the reding ad leaflet which she replied she wsnt surprised and as the story above

you would think that would wake me up yet noooo it did though start opening my eyes

i need to also explain my sons, my middle son at the age of 2 started seeing spirits, so we eventually realised and at the age of 4 had to see a psycologist he has struggled with this all his life (another story)

my youngiest son at the similar age told me about his other mum he asked me were his other mum and dad was and his dog and his pram our pram wasn't his pram, we never had a dog as his dad didn't like them , he told me his mums name etc (another story)

my oldiest son was an old soul like me so i was told

anyway after keep getting iller, i decided to go to a spirit night event with the family mainly for them yet i got this same gut feeling to be read, (bear in mind i have been goin through the medical profession specialist etc for 28 year)

she told me i was goin to be seriously ill it will all fit into place, i decided years after to have her at my sis's for a home visit she didn't know who i was and that she had read me before , she asked me if anyone i knew was havig issues with a certain thing they were goin to be seriously ill, it didn't hit home it was me at that time , yet i knew how ill i felt

getting worse last year i decided to go for my cards read (very good tarot reader through doing the family) i was still though sceptical , yet she told me the same thing, and the knowing her final answer with the glares i have had off all 4 of them told me the outcome , this couldn't be denied those glare individually were saying all the same thing

so eventually hear i am now back tracking on my life and what i had been shown throughout that didn't register and the loosing what i needed to figure out from very young , the feeling of god

anyway , i want to explain that i believe even illness is a process of learning

for instance if the spirit life is full of love etc even if there is spirits that can be evil we still don't feel pain suffering etc in the spirit body like we feel in this body

again example , many learn in the spirit world to help childen scientist etc but emotionally to get to each realm we have to somewere learn love , up there we possibly have it way too easy that we forget what true emotions feelings love etc are , we have to go through this to develop to become a true guide, through hurt compassion love suffering we learn emotions no1 else will unless they have been there, pain etc were does this all take us, to love, god if people decided to go to hatred again they have to learn and possibly sent back to something more traumatic , but its all learning, unless were shown true pain how we we learn true love , even with loss this is us that learn what true loss is

my son is my side , his life has been on hold for mine, it kills me daily as he has no1 else, his brothers have there familys but he hasn't left me, he struggles with learning difficulties cannot sort out finances etc, he sits with me night after night hes only ever seen me ill , i have aracked my brain why why put him thorugh this me fair enough this is my life path for my learning to were i need to be i do believe that, but why my son, he will loose everything and be alone lost, when a child that stares with fear in his eyes begging you to reassure him all will be ok and you carnt its another emotion that you never want to feel or see, yet it happens

now I'm beginning to realise my children were sent to me for a reason its there learning, oh how i wish it wasn't, but again like my life emotions that will take them were no1 wants to go, but spiritually will find there way,
i do explain about god spirits after life , my youngiest knows hes been born again, he truly knows but still questions afterlife

he had a reading himself where my dad came thorugh and told him he sits with him when hes alone on a night thinking, he doesn't sleep much , he walks to what we call his bench and sits there alone hours yet he was told this and my dad said he was with him

i keep reminding him if this and how is it possible to know this from some1 else unless it was my dad there that told them

i wish i could whole heartedly reassure him but we all question somethings we cannot see or answer

but again i do believe our lifes our partners out parents our children our illnesses our trials are all mapped our for our emotional growth be it sometimes very painful it is all for our development of true love and compassion for were we need to grow in our spirit life

please don't take this personal this is my story and it may or may not help someone else in there theories about life and after life

i wanted to share my story as if there isn't after life or our lifes are not mapped out how did a palmist 2 spiritualist and a card reading all tell me the same thing they knew , yet science didn't
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Old 08-08-2017, 12:36 AM
nekogirl724 nekogirl724 is offline
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Everything on the other side is already planned out before we're born from who we date to our families, our friends to our enemies and so on. the movies/books "What dreams may come" and "cloud atlas" pretty much explain the whole thing but we are connected to everyone we know, they are considered our soul groups/soul mates. we even plan when we die on the other side, except for suicide, which one will have to make up for on the other side or in their next life. the whole idea is to advance one's soul and the people we know teach us the lessons we need to know to reach a higher consciousness
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Old 08-08-2017, 09:21 PM
CrystalSong CrystalSong is offline
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I hear you and send you a heart felt hug and your son at your side also.

Everything Spirit has shown me says the same thing - at least the big events are one's we lined up for ourselves before coming into body to then live them. Lots of other choices we make daily aren't mapped out though.

We forget everything we planned when we arrive in the body but the information that we planned it still exists and Psychic Readers and others who can look beyond the veil can see the information and plans.

Almost every plan has to do with learning more about Love in some way and evolving our soul, and the people in our lives agreed to play certain parts for us to further this learning just as we play parts in their lives for their further learning in whatever specialty they have chosen on a higher level before coming into body.

Meaning your son chose to be with you, to be as he is and to be born into your family.



"If you want to understand the Secrets of the Universe think in terms of Energy, Frequency and Vibration"
Nicola Tesla 1856-1943

When asked by a reporter how it felt to be the smartest man alive Einstein responded "I wouldn't know, ask Tesla."
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Old 13-08-2017, 04:06 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story..:)

Yes, I do believe we planned everything prior to incarnating...There are books written by different authors who agree with that idea...Soul Books like:
Journey of Souls
Destiny of Souls
Your Soul's Plan
Your Soul's Gift
Conversations with God (Books 1, 2, 3)

Those books will confirm it all for you but like you've stated, you already have a "knowing" within you..;)...Trust your own truth..:)

Wishing you love and light!!!..:)
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Old 18-08-2017, 01:16 PM
lauterb lauterb is offline
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Dear san16969

Yes we have a road map, in some cases we plan to ourselves, depending on our evolutionary stage, in other cases some spirits (from "high rank") plan for us.

In one reincarnatory plan you can involve more than 50 other spirits: ascending relatives, descening relatives, lateral relatives, friends, cooworkers, teachers, neighboors etc... Very complex, even your body is "projected", genetic engineers chose a specfic spermatozoid who posses the genetic appropriated to your reincarnatory plan.

Again is road map that can be change during the course depending on your needs, with detours and short cuts etc.

Most important thing is to put God in your life and in the life from those you are responsible for (chilfren).

All this is not new has more than 150 spirits revealed their "knowledge" through the books from Allan Kardec, who collected answers from the spirits all over the world.

You can freely download these books at internet in pdf files.

Good study!
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Old 12-09-2017, 11:03 AM
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yes i belv its map i do i no sum tims we can get lsss loss in lif we can
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Old 18-09-2017, 03:15 AM
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Yes, absolutely.

I think there is a very high spiritual path that we have planned out for us, to reach our highest states of love. As with all diversity, most of us do not learn it the first time around. We are working on many adversities in life, where we are being challenged to love others, who probably by all means of justice, do not deserve it in our eyes. Until we reach all those huge milestones in each life, we just keep repeating it, so therefore, there has to be a lifepath,or goals for us to reach.

A truly high minded spiritual person would have a hard time getting it the first time, Jesus, comes to mind.

To live without judgement, is to love.. When we think of judgement, we think of small things and acts of forgiveness, like petty fighting, lies, rumors, etc.

However, I've noticed it's really big acts of forgiveness usually....betrayal, murder, abuse, adultry, rape, etc.

Those souls are truly being tested to forgive, and to love....with understanding, without judgment.

Those are the kinds of challenges that most everyone faces, in some form or another.

There is a reason, because we cannot make it to the highest levels of consciousness or frequency, with any kind of darkness, or adversity. Like attracts like, we have to face the worst of the darkness, to reach the highest of the light, and be able to stay there, or else we won't vibrate at the same frequency of love and light, and will have to keep repeating lives until we do....and those lives, have your life path written for you to overcome those obstacles.

Never look at people, or souls who are faced with the darkest of lives...lives of which others judge, or think "I would hate to be him\her" I would hate to have that life...because you are not ready, but if you are going to fly where that eagle is flying....you will face the same adversity in one of your lives, and have to overcome the same judgement, rejection, pain, and isolation that souls feels.

That souls reward for their forgiveness and compassion...is higher levels of vibrational love, light and consciousness in its natural state...which is eternity.

I saw this after my NDE....and it's hard. I am working on my temper in this life....it's was obviously written in my class schedule here, on registration day:)

Anita M. wrote the neatest quote the other day....she said, Do not feel bad for feeling alone...this is not your home, you are meant to feel alone here. That feeling will not go away until you are in your true home, in the highest levels of heaven with God, and the rest of us.

When you have reached your potential of highest love, you will be able to love a Murderer/Saint Abuser/Child Adulterer/Partner etc, with the same amount of love and compassion, without judgement. That is the state of which Gods level of frequency vibrates at...and you can't do it from the outside, you have to live through it...to truly understand and use love to overcome it. Heaven is made up of pure energetic feelings...so you can't lie or sneak your way in there. Everything is exposed.
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Old 06-02-2018, 03:54 PM
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I believe reincarnation and connection we make in this life will be always the ones we really need and I believe that many things are already mapped for us all but it would be a bit sad and scary if it means that we donīt have any opportunity to change things, at all. But I think the major stuff will happen as it is mapped for us, no matter what we do.
You can see that as opportunity just go with the flow and enjoy or you can be afraid and feeling like trapped in a little box. I have been learning that when we take the challenges and heartbreak as a opportunity learn and grow, it doesnīt feel so overwhelming. You can always see light in the darkest hours if you just dig deeper enough. And have understanding.
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