Originally Posted by FallingLeaves
right now I'm into letting go of stuff that just hurts... so... guess I just cant have what I want *shrugs*
as i see it, letting go of painful things is a good strategy FallingLeaves
as to what you want:
do you [really] know what that is?
you wanna be happy, right?
you've decided that attaining "X" will cause happiness... right?
you struggle and strive for "X", and don't get it, and don't get happy... right?
let go of the pain.
let go of that middleman "X", which doesn't hold your happiness anyways.
undecide that your happiness is dependent on that thing you've thought
that you'd wanted... just point your compass towards 'happy' and move
in that direction... if "X" is something which you'd actually enjoy to experience,
it'll be along the pathway of happiness that your internal compass points you to.