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Old 23-10-2016, 02:33 AM
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Second Trimester Baby

Hi to each of you.

I have a huge favor to ask but that means the world to me.

A few years have passed and I would like/need some answers.

I miscarried a baby 4 months along and it happened quite suddenly. My water broke while sleeping and never knew I was pregnant-I had spotting which I thought was a light period. I skipped a month, so I thought I was having a double period. I had bad cramps and passed clots and didn't know to save for a dr.

I really wonder if the baby was a boy or girl...I want to do a memorial for my child in my home. I am hoping I do see my baby again-although I never have dreamed about her/him.

Can anyone pick anything up? This happened in early December awhile ago.

Thank you-my heart is so appreciative.
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Old 23-10-2016, 03:38 AM
H:O:R:A:C:E H:O:R:A:C:E is offline
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although gender is determined at conception (the genes are either XX or XY),
children are sex-neutral until the hormones kick in after a dozen years or so.
can you see a way to honor each possibility for your child?
i'm sorry for your loss, and that i can't pick anything up for you.
i'm confident that all things you love are held in safekeeping until you
can reunite with them.
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Old 23-10-2016, 03:47 AM
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Thank-you for sharing your wisdom.
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Old 23-10-2016, 04:18 AM
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The soul comes in at around 7 months. Prior to this the baby is just energy.
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Old 04-11-2016, 03:14 PM
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In agreement with the others I don't think there would have been a soul there that early.
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Old 04-11-2016, 07:48 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, dear Forever Girl.

My understanding is that the soul attaches itself at the moment of conception.
I have nothing to suggest on the sex of your child, but I have no doubt that your little one lives on in spirit.

I would recommend a classic work of spiritualist literature 'When a Child Dies' by Sylvia Barbanell.
I believe it will be a source of strength and comfort to you.

Take heart.
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Old 05-11-2016, 01:19 AM
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Dear forevergirl,
I am sorry.
Do your Memorial, and honour that Soul who decided after all, not to come to Earth. There are reasons beyond the ordinary and the obvious. That Soul decided for some reason it did not wish to fully incarnate.
We always have a choice. It can also be that a Soul can do more helpful work in the next world.

Or maybe that Soul will choose another time? For deep reasons.
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