Originally Posted by metal68
I'm in a similar position. Not so much after forgiveness but concerned by the idea that the dead can see things that they couldn't in life. For example I'm a red blooded male and I look at porn and how can I say it, I obviously relieve myself. I really can't imagine my late mother somehow approving LOL
Lol...! I kinda know what you mean, metal. But seriously, we put such an emphasis on sex in this life. It's just...natural...being physical creatures with an ego. On "the other side" I suspect sexual activity is viewed as no different than scratching an itch, tickling a child or even petting a pet. It's the ego that creates "naughties", selfishness and all the things we regret or feel shame for.
We're freed from that ego when we go to "the other side".