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Old 11-10-2018, 06:22 PM
Crystema Crystema is offline
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Question Narcissists masquerade as twin flame sometimes?

The term twin flame is new to me. I came across it in my research when trying to understand a recent experience with a man I just met. I kept digging and some seem to believe that a narcissist can kinda throw their energy into you to seem like someone connecting with you though. I don't know what this was...

I felt his heart chakra...

Now, I deal with a lot of contractors. I am to some extent empathic and get a pretty good read on each person, but this experience felt otherwordly to me. It was a very unexpected and intense connection.

I have only felt one other persons heart chakra in my entire life (30+ years.)

The first time I met this contractor I felt a magnetic pull. I was also intrigued by and attracted to the glimmer in his eyes. This was not a shallow physical attraction. I will just say he wasn't quite my type. I instantly shook his hand and invaded his bubble, which I could tell he didn't expect and neither did I. Here I was way too comfortable with him though usually I am aloof and formal.

I just felt like I liked him. I felt drawn. And I felt like he just let me into his bubble like, sure, come on in.

Now during this time I started to feel his emotions and other very strong impressions of whats going on in him whilring around in me. And it was refreshing, and even a bit enchanting. This is harder to explain for me.

I hired him for a few different jobs, and during this, I could feel his heart chakra connecting with my own -- a cord made of energy connecting our chests, I felt touched mine, tunnel in. It was strong, unmistakable. His chest was facing me often and I felt him focusing on me.

At one point after feeling his heart chakra and mine mingling, it was almost as if he was pulled like a magnet to stand just inches from my chest. It seemed unprompted by anything. We were just in this room standing maybe 2.5 feet apart when he just, stepped that close. I stepped back because I was still trying to be professional. I thought maybe he hadn't thought to do it then done it... maybe it was like something pulled him. Maybe. His other guy was in the room so I didn't think it was a calculated play that braisingly...

I felt an intense closeness to him, as if we had known each other already.

The next time he was over to do some work, the conversation deviated from professional to personal, and I could feel what he was feeling. We were both tapped into this feeling of just enjoying each others presence so much we were high on it... tickled... delighted... giddy... He was smiling from inside, laughing easily, looked to the side a lot... it was bubbling up inside both of us. I purposely dropped all my guard, filters down, and let him feel everthing inside me.

Usually I am shut up tight with a poker face or formal smile.

This felt like a first date, and he kept dismissing his painter like he was an annoying overly-attentive waiter when he came over with a question.

At one point he said to me "thank you for trusting me" and I said well thank you for trusting me too and gave him a playfully dainty handshake which made him blush and look to the side. I will put it this way, had it actually been a first date it would have heated up very fast.

I felt so uplifted even by our small talk, and I could still feel the way our heart chakras had connected after he left. It all left this strong imprint on me and it was all that whirled around in my head for days.

Then I felt this hole in my chest like I missed him, longed for him. I really wanted to explore what that was between us and I just wanted to be near him. Doing anything, talking about anything.

He retuned once again about a week later to drop something off, and he acted absolutely terrified of me... stood ten feet away and when he had to reach near me did quickly and cautiously like I am a snake! This was a bit devastating for me and I don't know what all of this... is.

Thank you in advance for anyone who made it through this long post. I am just at a loss here... kindred spirit, narcissist, twin flame... or just random and meaningless. I am so confused.
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Old 11-10-2018, 07:59 PM
Inika Inika is offline
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im sorry :( how confusing.

seems we feel things, energy in motion and give it a voice, and a direction on how, why and where we go with these feels. the other involved. may not go in the same direction with the feels. Its an outcome we can never assume.

the more we cling to love the more we lose our minds.

Right away i see another woman around him. you are a delight and an opportunity for a fling, affair but the guilt stops him. being near you now makes him feel guilty. he held his manhood in his hand a few times over since being in your company. It struck him.....that possibly you could see, know that, his sordid nasty porno type thoughts as he stroked. and the guilt of his mind does not match up to the values he believes he holds.
if he is a narc, then he will have no second thoughts of using you and any other to serve and gratify his needs first and always.

feelings are like perfume, strong scent when first arrive then gradually fades. emotions , as it is, energy in motion and always changing. the trick is to not cling, to allow and let flow over you. dont start giving feelings a story 'the twin flame story based on my feelings' this will only drive you mad.

he's not grown into divine masculinity. his penis is still the driving force for why he does anything in life. They dont dress in divine overnight. you can drive yourself mad waiting for that moment.
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Old 11-10-2018, 09:17 PM
Crystema Crystema is offline
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I tried to post a reply and got a weird error... trying again...

Firstly thank you so much for reading and replying.

What you have said makes complete sense to me and I had a few of those suspicions myself. : O

I am definitely going to leave the situation alone now.
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Old 11-10-2018, 11:14 PM
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I’m not even going to read this post, I’m commenting on the title
And I say No it’s not possible
No matter how clever a Narcissistic Psychopath is they cannot enter your dreams & visions & they cannot force unconditional love upon you.
Your initial instinct will always be to push a Narcissist away, whereas your feelings of unconditional love & peace with a Twinflame do not compare to anyone else never known a narcissist.
A narcissist will always play on your emotions & try to make you feel sorry for them.
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Old 12-10-2018, 04:52 PM
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He doesn't sound like a narcissist, he probably is highly attracted to you, hence couldn't act normally upon seeing you the second time. I'd leave it at that for now.
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Old 14-10-2018, 09:04 PM
Tigerlily Tigerlily is offline
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Narcissistic people....I'm going to keep my mouth shut :)

Narcs just really know how to smooze and win people over. If you are empathic, we'll they are drawn to empaths and their energy. They will and can suck you dry of your good energy just to make them self feel good. And much more.

As far as the fear you saw in him. Now to me that's a whole new discussion. If you both had a past life together, there could be something about you that terrified him. What that is, is something triggered inside. It could be he is involved with another woman, and has a liking to you but knows he has to stay back, which is human life. Or it is past life and something tragic happened between you both and he didn't feel it until recently.

We run into soul mates of our soul families our whole life to learn from and figure out and release those karmas. Maybe he was brought on for that reason, and you for him as well. Once that is learned and heal, you both can move on or move on together.
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Old 15-10-2018, 11:38 AM
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I’ve acted like this before. Not because I was taken. Or because I was acting with my penis. Actually the one time I did was during a streak of celibacy.

You could have felt fear for more than one reason. I’ve had nothing but poopy experiences with women my whole life. Of course all stemming from my mother. Issues I haven’t dealt with at that stage in my life. And my own internal projections. I’ve acted like this toward someone who I was into because she reminded me too much of an unhealthy ex. Same sign and a lot of the same narcissistic tendencies. I’ve done this when women were into me and I was still moving through pain from a year or two prior.

But looking back I wasn’t healthy enough to even try and date then. Granted you can’t blame a dog for shying away from people when all he knows is pain. It’s hard to keep opening up fully to give love a chance and keep getting hurt. Or least that’s how I thought about it back then.

The way I see things now is more along the lines of it doesn’t matter why others do what they do. It’s more of me living my life without letting another change my state.
Knowing others is wisdom, Knowing yourself is enlightenment. Lao Tzu
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