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Old 24-08-2016, 09:30 PM
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yes exactly. if someone wants to get all bent out of shape for something they assume i do or dont believe isnt my problem. its all theirs and they can have fun dealing with that. with the condition of this world currently its necessary for as many twin to be in union as possible. its not rocket science here.. we all might not get a next reincarnation with things like fukushima still contaminating the whole world and nuke red buttons can get pressed so easily and those trigger happy terrorists.

the bottom line is we are all here to serve the divine at this critical point in time on earth. why anyone would want to go against that.. who knows but they will get to answer for it to the divine themselves ..not to me.

good to see that you are figuring this whole thing better with your twin. some of us didnt have that opportunity to even know wth was going on until it was too late.

I agree with you for the most part. But I'm not going to question God's will.
God has the runner run for some unknown reason. It's all a part of the process, there is nothing we can do about it, it's out of our control. Just trust that the universe will deliver you to your destiny, have patience.

Don't think it's too late for you, it's not. Every twin flame couple goes through this stuff, it always seems hopeless. But God/Universe will work it's magic and everything will end up alright.
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Old 24-08-2016, 10:06 PM
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Whatever happens keep us updated. I had/still have this same predicament, but I made different choices than you, it's also stranger circumstances than you. I chose to stay alone, the universe sent me countless other partners at first, I turned them all down.

I don't know why but my TF wants me to stay alone, while she dates someone else. I'm a little more open to dating now though, I said if the universe sends me someone that I really click with, then I might just go for it this time, but I have not met anyone at all recently, before it was like every week or two another opportunity with a cute girl would pop up. Now it's just dead, so I'm just alone, but I'm not longing for anything more, I've found some peace, I probably entered surrender. If I just heal myself, my twin will heal too, we are connected....plus another TF couple said this same thing and they are in reunion.

Hey thanks for the reply. Did your TF tell you outright she didn't want you dating other people?

Well, with this other girl, we did click right away. But it's different. She's different, obviously. I still have this connection with my twin so it's a bit confusing for me.

All I did was let go of my twin and continued living my life and got to a pretty good place mentally and spiritually and my twin suddenly starts initiating out of the blue. It can't be a coincidence.

I know a lot of people would love to just to be in contact with their twin. I am fortunate because not only am I in contact with my twin, but she is responding positively to me and initiating everything. I'm just being me... the new me. Whatever you want to call it.

If it turns out she just wants to be friends, so be it. But I do owe it to myself to find out what it is she wants to talk about so badly.

So no, I don't have any control lol. We are all here to learn. Not to judge.

It doesn't do anyone any good judging a situation you know nothing about (not you specifically, talking about the other person in the thread being snarky).

Good luck with your situation as well and keep us up to date! I will keep updating whenever I can...
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Old 24-08-2016, 10:22 PM
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Hey thanks for the reply. Did your TF tell you outright she didn't want you dating other people?

Well, with this other girl, we did click right away. But it's different. She's different, obviously. I still have this connection with my twin so it's a bit confusing for me.

All I did was let go of my twin and continued living my life and got to a pretty good place mentally and spiritually and my twin suddenly starts initiating out of the blue. It can't be a coincidence.

I know a lot of people would love to just to be in contact with their twin. I am fortunate because not only am I in contact with my twin, but she is responding positively to me and initiating everything. I'm just being me... the new me. Whatever you want to call it.

If it turns out she just wants to be friends, so be it. But I do owe it to myself to find out what it is she wants to talk about so badly.

So no, I don't have any control lol. We are all here to learn. Not to judge.

It doesn't do anyone any good judging a situation you know nothing about (not you specifically, talking about the other person in the thread being snarky).

Good luck with your situation as well and keep us up to date! I will keep updating whenever I can...

thats good man im glad to hear of your progress. whatever you are doing it is seemingly the way to go. keep at it though healing and self work doesnt ever really truly stop. hope the meeting is a good thing for you both too.

sorry about my little spiel on your thread earlier too btw i dont like doing those kind of things.. i try to be helpful as best i can and that stuff just wasnt needed.
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Old 24-08-2016, 10:25 PM
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They say never to interfere with your twin's preexisting relationship though...

Divine timing will dictate when they will be ready to be with their twin.

It doesn't really matter what choice he makes though, we can make mistakes which only delay our reunion, but fate will always guide us to our destiny.


What would be considered as interfering with a preexisting relationship?

I'm not going to judge since that's a very subjective question. Someone might think just talking to someone who's already in a relationship as cheating, while there are others who are fully comfortable with their partner going out alone with their Ex'es.

We just have to be as accepting as we can. I have no problem with my g/f meeting with her Ex alone. I would put my trust into her fully. Jealousy and ego have no place in my life.

Actually, I don't believe my twin is interested in getting back together with me. I think she just sees how comfortable and calm I am with the whole situation. She feels confused, a bit insecure and needs to feel comforted, and I am giving her unconditional acceptance. She feels it and that's what is attracting her to me.

So if she wants to meet just to talk, then I will allow it. But again, we'll see how she feels in the morning. Maybe she changed her mind. If so, again, I am cool with it, as I was before she started reaching out to me.
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Old 24-08-2016, 10:34 PM
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Hey thanks for the reply. Did your TF tell you outright she didn't want you dating other people?

Well, with this other girl, we did click right away. But it's different. She's different, obviously. I still have this connection with my twin so it's a bit confusing for me.

All I did was let go of my twin and continued living my life and got to a pretty good place mentally and spiritually and my twin suddenly starts initiating out of the blue. It can't be a coincidence.

I know a lot of people would love to just to be in contact with their twin. I am fortunate because not only am I in contact with my twin, but she is responding positively to me and initiating everything. I'm just being me... the new me. Whatever you want to call it.

If it turns out she just wants to be friends, so be it. But I do owe it to myself to find out what it is she wants to talk about so badly.

So no, I don't have any control lol. We are all here to learn. Not to judge.

It doesn't do anyone any good judging a situation you know nothing about (not you specifically, talking about the other person in the thread being snarky).

Good luck with your situation as well and keep us up to date! I will keep updating whenever I can...

Interfering with their preexisting relationship - My personal experience is when I found out she was dating someone else, I confronted her, and then I telepathically told her to leave him, she then proceeded to emotionally attack me with lies and I felt like I was being destroyed from the inside out. I turned into a mess in the 3D, my sentences became incoherent and all I could do in the end was let out of shriek of pain and walk away......

Me and my twin flame communicate very abstractly. While the literal words "I don't want you seeing others" was not spoken directly to me, all her actions and behavior and jealousy points to the message that she does not want me seeing others.

It's a long story, almost a year ago, I had a toothache and my twin flame felt it as her own pain without me telling her, she is highly empathic. So for both our sakes, I immediately went to the dentist to get it fixed. So I found a new dentist online and went, and that's where I met the dental assistant who was very similar to my TF.

When she saw me her eyes lit up and she looked me up and down with a smirk on her face and a little mmmmm yummy expression. And then she was being really flirty and gentle with me, softly dabbing my mouth for drool and stuff lol.... So I was like okay... this chick is really into me, and since my TF is dating someone else I should probably hit on her. So I thought to myself I'm definitely going to ask her for her number when I revisit the next week.

Before I got to revisit the dentist I met my TF. She read my mind and immediately knew about the other girl, the dental assistant....
She got jealous and possessive, even though we were not dating! And she was dating someone!
So she does this little act and starts seducing me with her hips and started talking to me in this jealous tone. And I caved in, and thought fine I won't hit on her, and then my TF stopped. Then the next time I went to the dentist I passed her up.....didn't hit on her.
Now that I think about it, I should have hit on her, because my TF had no right to tell me what to do, especially so hypocritically.

That was the first girl and first chance I had. Because of the telepathy I realized if I were to date someone I would have to break contact with my TF, same conclusion as you, but for different reasons. My tf would give me hell, even if I kept the other girl 100% secret, there are no secrets I can hide from my TF she reads my mind and knows ALL.

Then other girls came along, every single time I considered hitting on them, my TF would do something negative, like pretending not to know me when we met. Now that I think about it, this is very controlling behavior(maybe even narcissistic) and I should never have tolerated it, but I didn't love myself very much at the time.

Recently, I learned that mixing other people's energy into the twin flame relationship is bad. So that's what ultimately made me decide to stay single for now. And after God touched my heart, I no longer felt the need for companionship, even with my TF most of the obsessiveness has dissipated.

I wonder if some of the negative energy I feel around her is from her relationship with another. I almost want to stay away until I'm sure she's single. If she's not reflecting my shadows, but I still sense negativity(and only around her), it might not be me, it might be her.....

I don't know if I made the right choices, if I had asked the dental assistant out, I wonder what would have happened. I think my TF might have learned that she needs to change her behavior if she wants me. This was almost a year ago though, it's history now, I made my choices and I am where I am now.

Well whatever you decide to do, good luck. Just remember that it's not the end if we make the wrong choices, we will always be redirected to the right path.

Right now I think we are at very similar places, you might be one step ahead of me. But things are getting better for me as an individual now just like you. And the last time I met my TF she also reacted positively because I was much more positive, and she initiated as well, but I still sensed a tiny amount of negativity, but I have a feeling that from now on it will never be as bad as before because I've done a good amount of healing myself and have more control now.

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Old 24-08-2016, 10:35 PM
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thats good man im glad to hear of your progress. whatever you are doing it is seemingly the way to go. keep at it though healing and self work doesnt ever really truly stop. hope the meeting is a good thing for you both too.

sorry about my little spiel on your thread earlier too btw i dont like doing those kind of things.. i try to be helpful as best i can and that stuff just wasnt needed.

No worries mate. It wasn't you I was talking about. You actually gave very useful input, so I appreciate it. I am pulling for you too!

I can relate to some of the things in your story, especially the cheating part. I got to a place where none of that really bothers me any more. I just remind myself every day to give unconditional love and acceptance and that's what I'm getting back.
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Old 25-08-2016, 07:39 AM
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It doesn't do anyone any good judging a situation you know nothing about (not you specifically, talking about the other person in the thread being snarky).


I presume you mean me. Am I not on your ignore list yet? I got the impression I was.

And it really is no use talking about people judging a situation they know nothing about when you've told people here next to nothing. Read your messages but as seen through the eyes of a spiritual adult. You come across as a rather mature man. One is entitled to judge from a spiritual / moral viewpoint. Your sort of situation isn't exactly unique in "life's pageant." That's what a forum's about - to comment. Or hadn't you realised that?

Honestly, for your age you don't seem to have made much progress at all.
Anyway...enough on this topic from me. I won't say more as I'm not yet on your ignore list. I urge you to list me there.

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Old 25-08-2016, 08:30 AM
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I presume you mean me. Am I not on your ignore list yet? I got the impression I was.

And it really is no use talking about people judging a situation they know nothing about when you've told people here next to nothing. Read your messages but as seen through the eyes of a spiritual adult. You come across as a rather mature man. One is entitled to judge from a spiritual / moral viewpoint. Your sort of situation isn't exactly unique in "life's pageant." That's what a forum's about - to comment. Or hadn't you realised that?

Honestly, for your age you don't seem to have made much progress at all.
Anyway...enough on this topic from me. I won't say more as I'm not yet on your ignore list. I urge you to list me there.

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No worries. I'm not here to argue. I'm here to learn, grow and accept others' viewpoints, even though they may differ from my own. I don't need to validate my opinions with an ignore function.. what's the point of that?

Peace and love to you and I wish you well on your own journey.
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Old 25-08-2016, 09:37 AM
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Peace and love to you and I wish you well on your own journey.

Thank you. And to you too, hoping your situation is sorted without too much acrimony.

Pax tecum.

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Old 26-08-2016, 05:59 AM
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So I met with my twin last night...

We had the most free flowing conversation ever. Most of the blocks that we had communicating before with each other were somehow removed. She told me she felt a different energy coming from me now and that she felt "pure joy" around me.

We talked for about two hours, mostly about her past relationships. We also talked about our relationship (or the end of it) in more detail. It was the first time we had openly discussed it.

The way I'd describe our conversation was "intellectual porn". My twin has a way of challenging me that makes talking to anyone else seem mundane and boring.

She told me that she was never this open with anyone before. Although she described her feelings not as sexual or romantic, it was more like she was "home" around me.

I occasionally checked my phone as I had scheduled a date with another girl and my twin immediately asked me about it. She was cool with it, although she said she felt jealous. I told her not to be and that what we have will never go away.

I walked her to her bus stop and we hugged it out.

I then went on my date. It was nice, but I was missing my twin and the mental stimulation I got from being around her.

When I got home, my twin texted me to ask me how I was doing and that she was feeling me the whole night after we had parted ways.

Our line of communication was still very open. She told me that she wanted to lie down next to me (in a non sexual way) and just talk to me until we both fell asleep. We did that, but in virtual land.

All in all, it was an extraordinary experience.
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