Am I just making up all this intuitive stuff? How do you know it’s real?

[ssdm1]

Originally Posted by Ac195

Thanks for answering. How do you move past the ache? It’s almost as if there’s this pull between us. I just wish I could write it off and move on. How did you make peace with it? What’s your story?

Acceptance.

It's taken awhile and I do still feel that ache at times, but once I stopped expecting what I wanted or how I wanted this to be and accepted this for what it is, it got easier and has become balanced now.

[Anne]

Success stories do not abound in TF land.

In many cases, I tend to think it is about harboring affection for ‘the one that got away’.

I accept it is probable I will never know the truth regarding my soul connections.

I allow for those instances when I may feel delusional in thinking there is more than I can comprehend.

Patience and faith are hard triggers when one is walking through an experience, examining the heart’s cravings, especially when it’s at odds with logic.

Hopefully we’ll all come out alright at the end.

[Jaclynt]

Hi Ac195,

I do have a success story and I know how you are feeling at the moment. It's the same way I felt for the 1st six years that I knew my twinflame. The emotional anguish was absolutely awful.

I married my twin this past September. It all began to come together when I really got serious about letting go and getting myself in a better place emotionally. There are still times that I am in awe that he and I made it to this place in our relationship. I would not give up what he and I went through to get here. I still can't believe this whole twinflame thing happened to me, but it's all so real.

[Clover]

Originally Posted by Jaclynt

Hi Ac195,

I do have a success story and I know how you are feeling at the moment. It's the same way I felt for the 1st six years that I knew my twinflame. The emotional anguish was absolutely awful.

I married my twin this past September. It all began to come together when I really got serious about letting go and getting myself in a better place emotionally. There are still times that I am in awe that he and I made it to this place in our relationship. I would not give up what he and I went through to get here. I still can't believe this whole twinflame thing happened to me, but it's all so real.

Hi Jaclynt! Wow, great news, congratulations! I remember when you came here with your story. You two were still friends. What a great update, maybe some day you will make your own thread about it, in the meantime, Best wishes to the both of you

Clover

[Jaclynt]

Thanks so much Clover!

Yes, I have to work on coming up with a thread! As you know, these twin flame stories have so much to them. I just don't know where to start! But eventually I'll be able to tell more of my story.

[Mysticrose37]

I am not sure anymore. All I know is when I think of him following his dreams. I smile. I know if he hadn't met me he might not be doing just that. I also learnt a lot from the experience. He wanted to know me. Now I seek that connection in others.
So I don't know if for me I believe in twin flames anymore. I do know I was blessed to feel a soul connection with this person. I want nothing but the best for them. I say fly little butterfly, for you are no longer a caterpillar.

[Dudla]

I too was quite judgemental and had black and white thinking about how things should be till my TF came along and I started believing that there are actually many shades of grey. As I progressed on my spiritual path which opened up after my meeting with my TF, I now question every belief and understand that what we think is true is only true because we believe it to be true. But in reality there can be many truths. Once we learn to accept this, we become more accepting and open minded. We even become less harsh on ourselves.
Who says a relationship has to be a particular way to be successful? It is only our belief that it has to be so! Belief nurtured by society and religion, but not necessarily the ultimate truth.

I struggled for years in my relationship with my TF and wanted it to be black or white till one day, whiel in a meditative state, a question popped in my head "Are you happier having him in your life or happier without?" I knew the answer was happier having him in my life. So the course of action became clear that I should be happy having him under any circumstances, black, white or grey and if it has to be grey well then it has to be grey! Since then I am in bliss with whatever I have and full acceptance of the circumstances.

[DARKEST_HOUR]

Originally Posted by Ac195

Thanks for answering. How do you move past the ache? It’s almost as if there’s this pull between us. I just wish I could write it off and move on. How did you make peace with it? What’s your story?

Time. Took about 4 years for me. Spent about 2 of those years thinking she still loved me and thinking there would be some kind of a reunion and blah blah blah lol. The other two were spent dating and keeping my mind occupied. Eventually i got past it. If she ever did come back, I don't think I'd want to be with her.

[Lerxst]

I don't believe in any of this... until...

The right person made something click, like a rusty switch that was frozen shut until this person came along. At that point, I couldn't deny anything that anyone was saying about this.

[Khalli]

Originally Posted by Lerxst

I don't believe in any of this... until...

The right person made something click, like a rusty switch that was frozen shut until this person came along. At that point, I couldn't deny anything that anyone was saying about this.

Strange how that happens and usually when you aren't looking.