Advice...

anonymous111 · #1 26-08-2016, 04:28 AM

I need some help on this issue. How can I learn to not be so sensitive when my TF hardly speaks to me throughout some periods of time? Also, on a separate note, does anybody know how to contact angel guides?

H:O:R:A:C:E · #2 26-08-2016, 05:43 AM

Q1: i suggest that you be open to your sensitivity. if you feel a certain way,
"express" that feeling (not to others, but for yourself). emotions are not
actions however, so don't be driven into behaviors through emotion.
focus on YOUR well-being, as a fully functional creature who is not dependent
on anyone else to provide something to them... allow your TF to do as they please.

Q2: you might browse through the older postings... here's a page that
could prove useful for you:
http://www.spiritualforums.com/vb/showthread.php?t=4662

chellako · #3 26-08-2016, 05:45 AM

I just make myself busy with my own life. I work a lot, hang out with friends, focus on projects. It helps. I mean, I never forget my TF completely, but sometimes I get distracted for quite a while. I start to not care as much. And I try to remember that I love him unconditionally, therefore I can't possess him or have expectations. If he wants to talk to me he that's his choice, but it's not my right to get offended when he doesn't. He has freewill, he's not obligated to contact me. Yes it does hurt but that's how it is. After a while you just accept it. Although I am still struggling sometimes so who am I to give advice lol. Idk...that's the best I can do.

As for talking to guides...usually when I'm in bed at night before I fall asleep, I just speak to them (in my thoughts) as if they were in the room and are my advisors. I explain my problems and I ask them to help me and contribute their knowledge to put me on the right path. It's imperative you give them permission to help you, otherwise they won't overstep your right to freewill.