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Originally Posted by Awakened Queen
Warm up to him as a friend. "Like" a post or comment on one of his FB posts. Start out slowly, and see how he responds.
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Yeah, I've been more or less doing this. I only liked one post in which he stated he got into grad school where I live. I get too nervous when it comes to liking his posts because I'm afraid of being too "obvious". I'm scared that he might think "now that I'm moving there, she's suddenly interested in my life when she never did before". I just liked that one post two months ago.
His birthday is coming up this summer, so I may add a casual happy birthday on his wall, though I didn't do it last year.
I swear, he makes me so nervous. Even when we worked together, just walking past him would make my knees go weak though whenever we'd talk just the two of us, I was fine. He scares the hell out of me, but in a good way. Not because I'm afraid of his rejection, but because I'm just nervous! This is silly.