Is it normal to keep having dreams about your soulmate?

[sapphirerose]

Like many of you, I believe we can have more than one soulmate. I’m lucky enough to currently be in a relationship with my beautiful girlfriend - my soulmate. We are a same-sex couple. Fate brought us together, and the struggles we’ve had in both of our pasts led us to each other. I know I am meant to be with her, and she feels exactly the same way. I love and adore her like I have loved nobody else.

Yet, there’s another soulmate of mine – I’ve never been with him, and never will be. This might sound crazy, but he is my uncle (by blood). After having done lots of personal/spiritual research over the past few years, it simply makes sense that he is, indeed, a soulmate. In our daily lives, we aren’t even very close and only see each other several times per year. When I do see him, I feel utterly overwhelmed by his presence and am deeply attracted to him in every way. This has driven me crazy since I was 16, and I’m now 24. I feel attached to him on a soul level. I love this man unconditionally - it’s something I feel so deep within my being. I cannot explain it through logic or reason. I don’t feel this way towards any other family member. I’m not going to write down all the strange coincidences, events and emotions that I’ve experienced in regards to him – if I did, this post would become an essay.

Sometimes, months pass by without us having any contact at all, and it hurts so much. Yet, I still feel him with me every day. The longer we go without any contact, the more my heart aches due to missing him so much. I don't even know why I miss him. During these no-contact periods, I desperately wish I could reach out to him, even through text message, but I never do, as feel it may scare him. He means everything to me, just like my girlfriend does. I find it quite amazing that you can love two people so much, in the same way, but only end up with one of them.

All I want to know, right now, is why I keep having regular dreams of him at this point in my life. The dreams are never sexual in nature, but they often involve us talking, or standing close to each other, or showing simple affection (e.g. prolonged eye contact, hugging, or holding each other). I don’t know what this means, but I’m ashamed about these dreams. I just wish he could disappear out of my mind.

If you have any advice or words of reassurance, I thank you in advance.

Originally Posted by sapphirerose

Yet, there’s another soulmate of mine – I’ve never been with him, and never will be. This might sound crazy, but he is my uncle (by blood). After having done lots of personal/spiritual research over the past few years, it simply makes sense that he is, indeed, a soulmate. In our daily lives, we aren’t even very close and only see each other several times per year. When I do see him, I feel utterly overwhelmed by his presence and am deeply attracted to him in every way. This has driven me crazy since I was 16, and I’m now 24. I feel attached to him on a soul level. I love this man unconditionally -

Understand. I have a soul mate, same gender though I'm a straight hetero so such love as I feel for her is all-embracing; unconditional.

All I want to know, right now, is why I keep having regular dreams of him at this point in my life. The dreams are never sexual in nature, but they often involve us talking, or standing close to each other, or showing simple affection (e.g. prolonged eye contact, hugging, or holding each other). I don’t know what this means, but I’m ashamed about these dreams. I just wish he could disappear out of my mind.

If you have any advice or words of reassurance, I thank you in advance.

Nothing to be ashamed of at all. Our dreams are a refocusing of our consciousness, so the neurobiologists say - the same parts of the brain are active as if we're awake. There's nothing wrong. He evidently fulfils something in your life and I'd guess it's perfectly possible to have someone blood-related as a soul mate.

If anything you should keep a dream diary, noting anything you can as soon as you waken, so you can learn more about this interaction, contemplate later in the day(s). But if not and just as a guess, he's offering stability in your life, an affection that brings assurance and a sense of safety, a connection with wisdom. Could be the attraction is at the soul level.

Just a thought, anyway.

[FairyCrystal]

COuld be a matter of some unfinished business between you and him from a past life. You may be able to find out by meditation or else get a proper reader involved. SOmething may still need to be dealt with.

You dreaming of him isn't strange if you have these feelings. You dream about what is active in your system, in your conscious and subconscious.
Maybe it will help to get in touch during the day via meditation. You could use the free kit from Cassady Cayne for this. It contains a Connection Tool that you can also use to meet your Higher Self, a family member that passed away, your TF, or anyone else.
If you do that during the day every now and then you may a) get some answers about the cause of these feelings and b) be able to sleep without having those dreams.
The dreams probably a result of attempting to suppress thoughts and feelings during the day. At night you don't suppress, and your subconscious will then come up with these dreams.
I've done this technique myself as I kept dreaming about my TF ex and it began to do me in, causing health problems even. It did help.
It might also help if you can talk about it with your partner. Just get it out of the suppression sphere as that clearly doesn't work.