Before or later?

[Summertime_Sadness]

I have read a pretty much stories about TF here (the great site!), on Quora, and in my native language. So, there is a quite people who met his TFs, to my mind.

I am curious, what happened before: you read the TF concept and met your twin, or you met TF and then (later) you understood that it was TF.

As for me: for 2 years I was seeking an answer to my strange case. I went to doctors firstly, but I didn't found an answer in cabinets... Then, I also had an alien explanation theory (seriously!). But only this year the term TF appeared in one of the articles on the net, I started to learn this, and, firstly, I was prone to think that the this term is one of that modern psychological term that can be found in glossy magazines.

[jro5139]

It's important not to believe everything you read. It seems pretty obvious to me that not everyone here is talking about the same thing.

[Summertime_Sadness]

Jro5139, I also understand that people mean different by TFs, and we are all seeking answers.

By the way, you have probably meet your TF later than the concept has been "advertised", haven't you?

[jro5139]

Originally Posted by Summertime_Sadness

Jro5139, I also understand that people mean different by TFs, and we are all seeking answers.

By the way, you have probably meet your TF later than the concept has been "advertised", haven't you?

I'm not really sure what you mean, but I never heard of a tf until I had known mine for 3 years. It's probably better that way. Anyone who finds out about the tf concept first, and then "finds" their tf or more accurately "was looking for a tf" probably doesn't understand what it really is.

[TheMotherKnowsAll]

And some twin flames wish they had never been found at all. I think it is very good advice to not believe everything that you read - I don't think you are, by the way. It is good to research and read other people accounts, and then make up your own mind and your own definitions.