help interpreting a spread

[Roseofthevalley12]

this a spread I found. I met my Twin Flame 2 years ago he is currently in a relationship so really there is nothing beyond friendship going on. Its called the other woman spread. The spread is laid out in the form of a pyramid. These are the positions.

card 1. Represents the man
card 2: the man's emotional attachment to the other woman (me)
card 3: The man's emotional attachment to his current partner
card 4: The man's sexual relationship to the other woman
card 5: mans sexual relationship to current partner
card 6: things the man doesn't like about the other woman
card 7 things the man doesn't like about current partner
card 8 his view on the other woman as a marriage partner
card 9 his view on his current partner as a marriage partner
card 10 outcome of relationship with other woman
card 11 outcome of relationship with current partner

here are the cards I pulled
1. strength
2. king of wands
3. 3 of pentacles reversed
4. the empress
5. knight of pentacles
6. queen of pentacles reversed
7. 4 of swords
8 queen of wands
9. hierophant
10. the lovers
11. judgement
be greatly appreciated.

[Awakened Queen]

I'm confused. Did you pull additional cards? What do cards 12 and 13 represent?

I know this is an emotional issue for you, but what do you see in the cards?

Hey roseofthevalley12
As above some are missing... But from the cards that are present I see him as only thinking of you in a sexual content, lots of wands in his cards regarding you where as his current partner there's more of solid/traditional cards as feelings for her. (Pentacles/hierophant)...Sorry to put such a damper on your reading and just to add I'm only learning so maybe someone else see,s it differently :)

[Awakened Queen]

His view of you as a marriage partner is telling. The Nine of Swords is all about sleepless nights, overthinking, worry, fear, and anxiety. The relationship may have been a little too intense for him. Did you guys fight a lot?

[Roseofthevalley12]

Originally Posted by Awakened Queen

I'm confused. Did you pull additional cards? What do cards 12 and 13 represent?

I know this is an emotional issue for you, but what do you see in the cards?

the 9 of swords and the page of cups are clarifying cards I pulled. sorry for the confusion. I am not denying he is probably sexually attracted to me but or relationship has never been sexual. We have had issues. Initially he wanted a relationship. It was very intense and drama filled. It was like be with me open your heart I cant be without you. At the time I couldn't I was in a relationship. Now it is the other way around except I do not voice these things. His current partner is an ex she cheated and left and now they are giving things another try. I actually feel that the pentacles represented her love of his money. This is a man who makes about 12 million dollars a year and she is a woman who doesn't work. So in a sense for her he represents financial security. I am in no way saying he doesn't feel deeply for her but its more codependent than normal love

[Roseofthevalley12]

Originally Posted by Butterflies

Hey roseofthevalley12
As above some are missing... But from the cards that are present I see him as only thinking of you in a sexual content, lots of wands in his cards regarding you where as his current partner there's more of solid/traditional cards as feelings for her. (Pentacles/hierophant)...Sorry to put such a damper on your reading and just to add I'm only learning so maybe someone else see,s it differently :)

Can wands also be representative of myself as an aries, a fire sign because in readings totally unrelated to him I tend to get many wands as well. And I am not sure wands always relate to sex because my sex life has been non existent for well over a year lol

[Awakened Queen]

Both outcomes have to do with choices.

[Roseofthevalley12]

It would seem so. I try not to dwell on it. In a conversation a couple of weeks ago he expressed that he feels stuck and somewhat boxed in within his current situation. He said he wished he didn't feel obligated. I try be supportive but the most I could manage was "I am sorry you feel that way". In getting to know him as a person I feel that he makes choices without any real thought for the future. Ultimately I've recently began dating someone. So there might not actually be a choice for him to make.

Originally Posted by Roseofthevalley12

Can wands also be representative of myself as an aries, a fire sign because in readings totally unrelated to him I tend to get many wands as well. And I am not sure wands always relate to sex because my sex life has been non existent for well over a year lol

There's definately more of a spark for you than with his current partner, the cards for you are energising

[Roseofthevalley12]

the spark is there but there is also a lot to be said for comfort