Trying to get ex/crush back into my life.

RadicalRave · #1 22-12-2019, 06:59 PM

I've been praying for years for Jenna to come back into my life. I've been praying to God to soften her heart to forgive me and come back into my life. I've tried everything and nothing has worked. I've done meditation, LOA, no contact, manifesting ex/SP, etc. Nothing has worked.

I'm tired of being single and can't find anyone better than she is. Ive been single all my life and can't find anyone who can top her off. I need help.

Native spirit · #2 22-12-2019, 09:47 PM

Well if you go around with that attitude you wont find anyone,she is not in your life for a reason.
You have to give other people a chance,you may even find someone who suits you better,
but if you compare others to your ex, then they will soon get fed up.

Namaste

paragon · #3 23-12-2019, 02:04 AM

I know it's a bitter pill to swallow, but I have to agree with Native Spirit. I was also ignominiously dumped by a fiancee, and it took me about 2 years to get over it. Fortunately for me she married someone else, so I was forced to move on. Looking back now, I'm so glad we didn't end up marrying as it would have been an unhappy, dramatic marriage.

Right now you're stuck in a rut and it's unlikely to change unless you do. Once you move on, regain some hope and start expecting something better, then you're opening the door to new possibilities.

RadicalRave · #4 23-12-2019, 02:17 AM

I still believe I can manifest and bring her back. I just know it.

paragon · #5 23-12-2019, 02:22 AM

It's good that you have belief and hope, but why not take that belief and change it around? Something like: "I believe I will find the perfect woman for me, whoever she may be?"

RadicalRave · #6 23-12-2019, 02:28 AM

I believe she will come back around to me.

iamthat · #7 23-12-2019, 04:22 AM

You seem to be resisting the fact that Jenna has decided to leave you, and the fact that you pray to God that she will forgive you suggests that you are in some way responsible for her making that decision.

Are you still the same person you were when she left? In which case, why should she come back? What are you doing to change yourself and become the best version of yourself you can be?

At some point, for the sake of your own happiness, you are going to have to accept that the relationship is over. You need to let her go, so you are free to move on. And maybe when you let her go you will create the space in your life for someone else.

Peace.

Ziusudra · #8 23-12-2019, 02:01 PM

Do you even know why she left you or why you two are not together now?

You mentioned "soften her heart to forgive me and come back".
What did you do to make her leave?

Instead of praying for her to forgive you, try self analyzing/reflection and change your actions.
Basically be the man that she wants, if that is even possible.

Ultimately, you have to find someone who will accept you for you.

On the other side, Jenna may also be praying, meditating, LOA, and etc to attract a man who will make her happy and who is comparable with her and who is not you.
If that is the case, whatever you are doing is contraindicated and ineffective, since she is desiring a different energy in a man.

sea-dove · #9 23-12-2019, 03:58 PM

Let it go, if it is supposed to be you would not need to be praying for it and it will just happen anyway.

#10 24-12-2019, 09:49 AM

Come on! You declare your age as 31, hardly a spring chicken. If you offended her or you two simply diverged is it really worth reuniting? Much as people pretend they can forget, the history is indelibly in your brains and it'll be brought back. Short of a miracle you'll both go through the same cycle.

And...if you've been praying to God and she hasn't returned, what better answer do you want?

So I agree with others. Move on. Learn from what happened to break you two up.
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