Why is it that people feel called to start living once someone dies?

[ReturningMoon]

Hi everyone. I have noticed this first hand in my own family. From my father's side of the family over the past 4 years there have been 4 deaths. It isn't until now that we are all starting to talk about enjoying each day and living each day to the fullest.
I think it's a sad thing that it takes that to realize your time is limited and you have to live fully. It is sad but it seems like it's almost needed for that purpose.
Do you agree or disagree?

[Miss Hepburn]

I only disagree that it is sad. (The deaths are sad and painful for the loved ones,
pls don't misunderstand me about that.)
Something good came out of the deaths. So many, many things help us appreciate life more, I'd say;
some times it can be a dream or seeing a car accident, a News report, the birth of a baby.

[Native spirit]

I may have a different take on this being a person who did not want to be born
I have Lived many lifetimes and this is not a good one,
I Will be glad to go back to spirit but I walk my final path I wont be back again, and for that Im glad
I have had three NDE had over 40 operations with more to come,

I was born Hearing and seeing spirit so I know more about the Spirit world than a lot of people,
and believe me you are free.
Free from the mortal body there is nothing there but peace and love there are the Halls of learning where you are free to go.
When you cry for a person at funerals you cry not for them but for yourself
you cry because you miss them,


Namaste

[Redchic12]

NativeS. Love ya comments.

No I don’t wanna come back either. Ide rather go off exploring other planets and the Universe and learning everything there is to learn ha

[AnotherBob]

Isn't sadness or any emotional reactivity something extra we as humans add to experience, as is our preference for one experience over another? Spirit calls the shots, the human can either resist and complain or go with the flow in acceptance and joy. The quality of our happiness is directly proportional to our ability to let go of our demand to have things be other than they are.

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