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Originally Posted by Mayuyero
It is highly possible that I have Asperger´s syndrome or at least have several of its traits. I have always had poor social skills and often have a hard time socializing with other people. I hate having these social problems. It has always been a huge obstacle in my life and because of my condition I feel that I have not been able to live a full life. I often get depressed as I feel helpless because of having this genetic neurological disorder.
Why did I have to be born with Asperger´s syndrome? How does it relate to karma in previous lives?
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But it's never too late to start living a life. Even if you live 2 great years, it would be all worth it. I mean it would be great. There is no need to regret a life. There are many to live in the future. It's not doing you any good to look at the past. Look at the present. Imagine that you were just born. And try to live your life now, in the best way you can.
I do emphatize though. I do have social anxiety also and it also makes me unable to do much. But I find ways. Like for example, talking to people online is much less stressful than in person. So I do the online thing. (Interpals.net for example, pen pals... that
it's like having a peacemaker if your heart has failed
or like having a wooden leg if your own is not working
internet friendships can serve us as a substitute for the ones in life
and maybe you can contribute something online to people, answer their questions, help them out, be useful in that way or write something like a book and post online (for example, citidata forum is where people ask for advice or just discuss things)
all these ways are good ways to feel useful when you suffer from social anxiety and other issues like that
find what you can do, with your strenghts and your limitations and then do it and you will feel better