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Old 30-06-2017, 01:30 AM
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You are most welcome Blackraven. And that's not just from me.....

But from a very human point of view it feels shocking to have deliberately decided to end the life of someone you spent all your energy for years -to nurture and help. I understand how bizarre and awful that feels.
All I can say is that they do not see it that way at all. I do know that. You see, they completely understand the intent. They see the loving force pervading your relationship. The two perspectives (their view and our view) are so very different.The unifier is Love.
Bless you and your dog.
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I experienced this after letting someone I really love a LOT out of my life combined with repeated trauma. When I was really young I encountered some Chinese philosophy on depression and these types of traumatic situations. In western civ we tend to resist these feelings and try to revive what we feel is correct. Eastern civ- don't resist. Live through it as a season that passes, like our natural seasons; winter, summer, spring and fall. What you have endured, well you have to let it play out and give yourself time to resolve it. Allow yourself to have your thoughts and to examine them--but live as you are doing, and it will pass.
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Old 15-07-2017, 06:58 PM
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I experienced this after letting someone I really love a LOT out of my life combined with repeated trauma. When I was really young I encountered some Chinese philosophy on depression and these types of traumatic situations. In western civ we tend to resist these feelings and try to revive what we feel is correct. Eastern civ- don't resist. Live through it as a season that passes, like our natural seasons; winter, summer, spring and fall. What you have endured, well you have to let it play out and give yourself time to resolve it. Allow yourself to have your thoughts and to examine them--but live as you are doing, and it will pass.

Thank you for your input Sugar-n-Spice. I've looked back over my life, and like you, some people that meant a lot to me, I had to say goodbye. Repeated traumas can often cause a person to protect him or herself through dissociation. Like if one pushes pain down deep enough maybe it won't be felt anymore. But those things have a way of pushing back up in other areas of life. One just never knows how much another individual has experienced in life. I think that's why I have learned over my lifetime not to judge other people. Not judging doesn't always transform into empathy, but the more I realize that everyone in this world experiences traumas, like you spoke of, I know I am not unique. I've come to believe through this thread and a very meaningful PM, that I am indeed have empathy running through my veins and the years of dissociation are melting away. Thanks again for your input.
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You are most welcome and believe me I can relate *hugs*
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i find this video inspirational blackraven:
Everything Is Here to Help You - Matt Kahn
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jS9V_A_0eQk
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Old 07-08-2017, 08:11 PM
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i find this video inspirational blackraven:
Everything Is Here to Help You - Matt Kahn
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jS9V_A_0eQk

H:O:R:A:C:E - Thank you kindly for introducing me to the lectures of Matt Kahn. I plan to watch other videos of his. "Everything Is Here to Help You" helped me. That's proof that it is true.
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