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Old 14-08-2019, 11:53 AM
Lorelyen Lorelyen is offline
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Ahhhh.... the sweet scent of romance...!
Do as people have suggested: message her but expect nothing. Don't risk building up hopes. Treat the attire thing as coincidence. Crushes are lovely but dangerous, the tendency to come up with all kinds of hopes and expectations that are never satisfied entirely except on the rarest of occasions.
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Old 15-08-2019, 01:28 AM
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Ahhhh.... the sweet scent of romance...!
Do as people have suggested: message her but expect nothing. Don't risk building up hopes. Treat the attire thing as coincidence. Crushes are lovely but dangerous, the tendency to come up with all kinds of hopes and expectations that are never satisfied entirely except on the rarest of occasions.
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So it doesn’t mean anything that she wore the colors that I would used to wear back in high school and she just wear those colors without even thinking about me lol But there’s another picture of her wearing a purple jacket and a black sweat shirt lol so I guess she just likes those’s color haha
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Old 15-08-2019, 09:20 AM
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So it doesn’t mean anything that she wore the colors that I would used to wear back in high school and she just wear those colors without even thinking about me lol But there’s another picture of her wearing a purple jacket and a black sweat shirt lol so I guess she just likes those’s color haha
I can't and don't know. Do you know? Really? Seems that you're basing it on hopes here.

So...for the preservation of your feelings and hedging against disappointment I suggested treating it as coincidence.

The only way you'll find out if anything can come of this is to make contact. See what gives.
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Old 15-08-2019, 11:09 AM
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So it doesn’t mean anything that she wore the colors that I would used to wear back in high school and she just wear those colors without even thinking about me lol But there’s another picture of her wearing a purple jacket and a black sweat shirt lol so I guess she just likes those’s color haha
Could just be that, yeah. Why did you wear those colours back in high school, were you wearing them because someone you liked wore them or did you just like the colours?
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Old 15-08-2019, 07:58 PM
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Could just be that, yeah. Why did you wear those colours back in high school, were you wearing them because someone you liked wore them or did you just like the colours?

I just liked the color
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Old 16-08-2019, 11:08 AM
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I just liked the color
Maybe she just likes the colours too, as you said. Doesn't necessarily mean you shouldn't reconnect with her, though, if it feels like the right thing to do then I say go for it
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