It never ends

[~Lioness~]

Hey guys! Sorry I didn't reply earlier, I've been doing some soul searching. I knew I was waiting for an important point I was missing. Like something just wasn't clicking. And it finally did, and it's so simple that I feel quite silly for not knowing.

Its acceptance. I was not letting the past be, and reaching for some unknown future that doesn't even exist, only in my imagination I guess though.

My twin flame /soul mate / whatever she is, exists more in my head than reality, so changes will begin with me and accepting stuff I didn't want to be real.

Again, I feel silly that I couldn't figure this out earlier, without today's little nudge in that direction ♡. I just wanted to update here.

[Realm Ki]

Originally Posted by BlueSkiez

Hey guys! Sorry I didn't reply earlier, I've been doing some soul searching. I knew I was waiting for an important point I was missing. Like something just wasn't clicking. And it finally did, and it's so simple that I feel quite silly for not knowing.

Its acceptance. I was not letting the past be, and reaching for some unknown future that doesn't even exist, only in my imagination I guess though.

My twin flame /soul mate / whatever she is, exists more in my head than reality, so changes will begin with me and accepting stuff I didn't want to be real.

Again, I feel silly that I couldn't figure this out earlier, without today's little nudge in that direction ♡. I just wanted to update here.

That's lovely you've found your key...!

Good work, congratulations. And w regards to feeling silly: don't forget this might not be about you - it might be a learning someone quietly reading this needed. Or one of us replying to you that needed a reminder of something in our pasts or presents...

I like to see myself as a supporting role or even and extra in someone else's story from time to time... Helps with perspective and gives a great laugh too <3

[~Lioness~]

Originally Posted by Realm Ki

That's lovely you've found your key...!

Good work, congratulations. And w regards to feeling silly: don't forget this might not be about you - it might be a learning someone quietly reading this needed. Or one of us replying to you that needed a reminder of something in our pasts or presents...

I like to see myself as a supporting role or even and extra in someone else's story from time to time... Helps with perspective and gives a great laugh too <3

True, about the laughs <3

[SheShatters]

"The psychic connection was so strong at times that I could feel her hugging me , kissing me, holding my hand, even making love to me."

So, did you ever actually have a real time relationship with this person or was it all in the psychic? Because, that could be you creating an ideal relationship, not a real one. Real people are messy and imperfect and difficult at times, not all warm and positive and sunny like you describe. It sounds like you are having trouble letting go of the perfect fantasy love idea and accepting a real live person. The psychic bond and dream attachment you are thinking about is maybe just an excuse to keep yourself from accepting the solid reality of a human.

[ad infinitum]

BlueSkiez, Sounds like you've figured things out and are on your way to better things. It can be hard to let go of the past, especially when a connection seemed so strong. I think you've made the best possible and most healthy decision for yourself. Well done.