Do our deceased loved ones feel sad at their own funerals?

[rita_herbertsson]

I'm sorry for your loss.. I believe that they are happy but at the same time sad. They are happy for they are now in a better place, but sad since they won't be able to be physically with their loved ones anymore. I'm sure that your husband misses you dearly.

[PeaceLilly]

I recently lost someone very close to me too, I'm so sorry for your loss. It gets old having people tell us 'they are better off now'. We know they are, it is US that is in pain, not them.

I lost someone extremely close to me at a young age and I have spent many years trying to figure what is the truth about the after life. It is a fact, anything a human can tell you is only their opinion.

BUT, IMO, some humans have remarkable gifts lol!!!

I do think the spirits are all around us and do try to communicate. From all I have read, the negativity of the human encounter is gone, they only want the best for us.

Death is so very hard for most of us, and yet we all know it is going to happen. I wish as a society we were more prepared for it. Even as my baby sister knew she was terminal, I still said things I wondered later if I should not have.

It takes so long and life will never be the same, be happy, I'm sure that he would want you to be.
(((hugs)))

[lauterb]

Dear Marymartina

Pse check question 320 to 329 from The Spirit´s Book from Allan Kardec (you can freely download from internet a pdf file)

Dont worry our beloved ones always stay with us, you will meet him again!

Good study!

[dream jo]

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