Past life memories

[Colorado]

Its really strange and confusing trying to put this together. There's many synchronized events that happen. All of it different...

First I was driving in the afternoon to go shopping, and in front of my eyes was a fast photo clip of someone else's eyes...and the image of a young man lifting up a young girl on his horse. They couldn't have been very old, teenagers.
.The next was a dream, a young man getting dressed in uniform, while family gathered together for a cook out/ party. The young man is on the 2nd floor, admiring his uniform in the mirror..then looks out the window to the right...and sees people showing up to the get together at his house.
The other dreams where cannons and guns being fired, and images upon waking up.
Running into people with the same connection and eyes, geographical region as those in the dreams and images.
The real dream, (this was scary) of standing in a farm field, watching the funeral procession in Sephora color. Staying 50 yards from the dirt road away from the casket and procession....being too afraid to get close. A flag draped over the coffin, as it is pulled by a flat trailor and horses...with the town's people walking behind it.

There's more small clips and odd images/ dreams and events, including people from the other life. Not to mention I tried to join the military at around the same age, 20...and I couldn't because I had a baby. We went to war a year and a half later, 9/11. This was before the dreams which started in my 30s. This was before I found out about my 20 year old uncle in Vietnam....and before Vietnam.

This looked to me like the Civil War. The brown uniform, and the horses, the sephia colored funeral, the setting, the farm house...the clothing.