This is why the twin flame theory often eludes me. There are some people who have experienced some beautiful things and I myself have experienced some beautiful things that match many of the things in this theory...right down to the numerology...but many relationship play out like the twin flame theory. It's not that uncommon. if someone has a soul connection to you, then you will know and no theory or whatever it is will be able to confirm that for you. The soul just knows. The soul just loves.
I'm sorry, but obsession is NOT love. Possession is NOT love. We cannot nor do we possess others. Not a big Osho fan but: "Love is not possessiveness; many people think that's what love is: you possess somebody totally. To possess somebody totally is to destroy all possibilities of love."
I love a woman very, very much, but I'm not a damn fool. I too feel that tug in my heart and I too know the connection, but there isn't a damn thing I wanna do about it because I know that I have NO business trying to be with that woman and I know that she has NO business trying to be with me. But I also know that it's a beautiful, pure, loving connection, and those type of connections should not nor can they be severed. If the connection is good, then only beauty and love flows through it. There's nothing wrong with loving someone. I feel like you don't have to be with someone or desire to be with them to love them wholly. There's nothing wrong with love, but IMO, obsession, possession, depression, desperation whatever...those things ain't right.
Sorry, just realized I'm venting some of my frustrations out in your thread. It's not all aimed at you wraithklewn...I mean...ForgedInFire! LOL!
If true love is the key to twin flame connections, then all you can do is get over the fact that you are tied by some chord and get on with your life. For me that's one of the parts of unconditional love...not just feeling love on a higher level (come on!) but also looking at things from a higher plane. Let's call a spade a spade. The only thing that truly keeps us tied to someone is our thoughts that we are tied to them and the reasons why we believe we are tied to them. My cord cutting method is real simple:
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