Rather than letting go of the past, you don’t have to use the past to create your future. If you acknowledge that you created your past, you are then free to create your future too. Now you are making conclusions about your past i.e. “left me so broken” and “I have a hard time trusting” which are all affirmations you are broadcasting into the universe and so your universe hears them and goes okay – hard time trusting and broken. You need to change these thoughts because at the moment they are a focus and that is what you are attracting. Likewise “I cant seem to let go” is an interesting affirmation to broadcast too.
One of the things that is really helpful here is affirmations. What if you said things like “It is easy for me to release the past and create the future I desire”. “I attract trustworthy people” and “I am whole, healthy and loved” instead 100x a day or whenever you think of it. In the beginning this will feel strange, but you are shifting out of the distrust and doubtful vibe you have at the moment and shifting to one that will create the life you are desiring.
Your intuition is always going to be guiding you to what you want to create. You have to be aware of what it is that you are creating and so at times you may meet untrustworthy people – because this is a big universe and there are many different types of people out there, but at the same time you want to start broadcasting the vibe that will attract trusthworthy people to you.
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Originally Posted by itsinmyhead
How do I let go of my past experiences from relationships that were very  bad so that my current marriage will survive. My past left me so broken that I have a hard time trusting. I can't seem to let go. But at the same time, I have reason sometimes not to trust. I am so lost. |
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