The Waiting Game

[lunapixie]

I feel that for all of us, those waiting or not waiting or even those who are running, there will always be this sensation of unfinished business. Don’t you agree? Like a feeling of “this isn’t over” even when we speak all the words which point to it being over and move on in our lives, sometimes with other romantic partners.

The connection itself never disappears and it seems to perpetuate a sensation of some type of an ongoing process which we can’t seem to ever fully graduate from, for lack of a better word.

I am not waiting for him to come back as my life is so much better and richer without him. But I still feel like I’m with him as he’s always with me. No matter what, always, until my last breath and beyond. And I’m not even being romantic about it. Not at all. This situation is just something that I’ve come to accept.

I really love those rare periods when I almost (almost) forget about him. But that never lasts for long and it always seems to lead to a period of intense synchronicities and jaw-dropping signs. Sigh...

[FairyCrystal]

So far it seems to be that way, yes. If it remains that way, I don't know yet. We only broke up 5 months ago so it's too soon for me to tell if it will remain that way even when dating or in relationship with another man.
In a way it'd be odd if it doesn't work? I mean, the other party is successfully doing it, so why wouldn't we be able to do the same? Now I do know he had the same 'problem' 3 months ago (he told me so), but apparently the pull and feelings are not enough to make him want to come back.
Oh well... wait and see how it develops in the future when it comes to feeling this connection.

[jro5139]

Originally Posted by lunapixie

I feel that for all of us, those waiting or not waiting or even those who are running, there will always be this sensation of unfinished business. Don’t you agree? Like a feeling of “this isn’t over” even when we speak all the words which point to it being over and move on in our lives, sometimes with other romantic partners.

The connection itself never disappears and it seems to perpetuate a sensation of some type of an ongoing process which we can’t seem to ever fully graduate from, for lack of a better word.

I am not waiting for him to come back as my life is so much better and richer without him. But I still feel like I’m with him as he’s always with me. No matter what, always, until my last breath and beyond. And I’m not even being romantic about it. Not at all. This situation is just something that I’ve come to accept.

I really love those rare periods when I almost (almost) forget about him. But that never lasts for long and it always seems to lead to a period of intense synchronicities and jaw-dropping signs. Sigh...

Absolutely. I can do everything there is to do to get over him but I can't seem to stop feeling and sensing him. And I don't even think about him in a romantic way anymore or pine for him in that way, but I can't make the connection die, no matter how much I focus on myself or other things. It seems to be something that just has to be accepted. And the dang signs keep coming.

[happyhaunts03]

Originally Posted by lunapixie

I feel that for all of us, those waiting or not waiting or even those who are running, there will always be this sensation of unfinished business. Don’t you agree? Like a feeling of “this isn’t over” even when we speak all the words which point to it being over and move on in our lives, sometimes with other romantic partners.

The connection itself never disappears and it seems to perpetuate a sensation of some type of an ongoing process which we can’t seem to ever fully graduate from, for lack of a better word.

I am not waiting for him to come back as my life is so much better and richer without him. But I still feel like I’m with him as he’s always with me. No matter what, always, until my last breath and beyond. And I’m not even being romantic about it. Not at all. This situation is just something that I’ve come to accept.

I really love those rare periods when I almost (almost) forget about him. But that never lasts for long and it always seems to lead to a period of intense synchronicities and jaw-dropping signs. Sigh...

Yes, I can honestly say the feeling never seems to go away, at least it hasn't in...I just realized it's been 13 years now since we first came into contact. Even in those times when the connection seems all but gone, I still have a sense that our story together isn't finished. In that way, it's very different than soul mates or karmic partners I have met where we connect, but once our business is over, there's no intense need to reconnect.

[LightbulbCosmonaut]

Originally Posted by happyhaunts03

Yes, I can honestly say the feeling never seems to go away, at least it hasn't in...I just realized it's been 13 years now since we first came into contact. Even in those times when the connection seems all but gone, I still have a sense that our story together isn't finished. In that way, it's very different than soul mates or karmic partners I have met where we connect, but once our business is over, there's no intense need to reconnect.

13 years... that's crazy. We first came in contact 6 years ago, so i often wonder how much more you can experience in such a long time, especially when it feels that you're already tired af, haha. In this period of time i also got to meet many karmics which only showed me that i'm right about this connection. So much eye-opening experience and overwhelming breakups, triggers/coincidences... And all of them just stayed in the past, we didn't reconect again, unlike with my TF, which happens again and again no matter what happens and how much time passes. Even if it's just 6 years, i don't feel like trying to find someone else to get into romantic relationship anymore, because i just simply don't need it, but now i realized that i shouldn't block myself from new experiences if i'm needed to experience them even more, because it only keeps as both stuck. I'm not waiting anymore, i'm open to new experiences and ready to see what's going to happen next.

[Crowzie]

Originally Posted by lunapixie

I feel that for all of us, those waiting or not waiting or even those who are running, there will always be this sensation of unfinished business. Don’t you agree? Like a feeling of “this isn’t over” even when we speak all the words which point to it being over and move on in our lives, sometimes with other romantic partners.

The connection itself never disappears and it seems to perpetuate a sensation of some type of an ongoing process which we can’t seem to ever fully graduate from, for lack of a better word.

I am not waiting for him to come back as my life is so much better and richer without him. But I still feel like I’m with him as he’s always with me. No matter what, always, until my last breath and beyond. And I’m not even being romantic about it. Not at all. This situation is just something that I’ve come to accept.

I really love those rare periods when I almost (almost) forget about him. But that never lasts for long and it always seems to lead to a period of intense synchronicities and jaw-dropping signs. Sigh...

Unfinished business is an understatement. I've been trying to make peace with the feeling that things aren't quite over, even though from an outside perspective it's completely dead. I have a lot to say but know that at the moment, it would only serve to make things worse. She's in a relationship now, so what all I can hope for is that she's open enough to intuit what I'd like to express.

I've been in denial about connected I still feel to her. I just admitted it to myself recently. I thought that because I wasn't longing for any sort of relationship, that this feeling would dissipate. On the other hand, I feel grateful for it, because it's taught me how to love in a more expansive way. I don't expect my love to be reciprocated, because love is all I need. I never feel alone because she's always with me. I wish she'd know much I appreciate that, even though it hurts like hell at times.

It's moments where I don't feel or think about her, that she pops in some way. It can be a bit nerve-racking at times.

[hesitant_man]

I haven't met her yet. During my past I was the runner, but all my attempts were unsuccessful. Now I have a more passive actitude, so I prefer to let things happen, and the destiny make let us know.

But what I would certainly do if I could, is somewhat calling my TF, just let know where and who I am.

[Kendaru]

Glad I hadn't voted yet, because I visited a psychic/twin flame specialist today who set things straight with me regarding my experiences with a TF spirit.

She told me she doesn't see a physical meeting with a twin flame to be a part of my path (and, I must admit, a lot of the experiences I've mentioned in other threads didn't sound like TF synchronicities to her - they were just the usual signs of ascension and kundalini awakening, which I mistook for TF activation because I'd never witnessed anything like it before). For me, that meeting will have to wait until I pass on and meet her in spirit. Before going in, I thought hearing something like this would make me upset, but actually... I'm greatly relieved.

I thought I had this next-to-impossible task ahead of me that was going to require a ton of spiritual work to pull off, but instead it's just... chill, and be content knowing it will happen someday, just not here. Knowing the connection I have now is basically it, I can just relax. Focus my efforts elsewhere, enjoy the connection I have as it stands, and let it guide me to greater heights in other areas.

I'm now comfortably Not Waiting. No point for me anymore. I have something to look forward to beyond this world, and it doesn't need to take up so much of my attention anymore. Most importantly, I can stop wishing for something more than I have, and focus on appreciating what I do have.

[Rah nam]

certainly not, angelic souls never split

[Saoirse Walker]

I'm not waiting. I'm in this forum to connect with other people who have had similar experiences, not to hang onto him---not that I don't enjoy finally having someone to talk to about strange experiences in my life. But I'm talking about a part of my life, experiences that were life-changing, not hanging onto someone I still think of being with, because I don't still.

I fully understand those who are waiting. It's just not right for me.