I just met my twin flame finally please please help me..

alcyone · #1 19-06-2018, 05:31 AM

I have posted here before about someone I felt was a twin flame but 10 years of deep pain grief didn't bring her back.

Now I met my twin flame. I always got the signs the other person was like preparing me for something more.

We have so many similarities. We both have personality disorders, were both genderfluid, we both have a son hers is 3 mine 5, we like almost everything the same the music movies and food exactly the same tastes.

She finished my sentences. One time I said to her "I was gonna be single for the rest of my life. Then you. "

And she said. "And then I came a long and turned your world completely upside down"

How can I make this work out? I'm terrified because tonight she put 10 years worth of grief to a shame. She made me feel the grief/pain/heartache of 10 years doubled in the course of two hours.

Please help me. What do I have to expect from here?

Heart · #2 19-06-2018, 07:55 AM

You are being asked to understand the reason behind why grief pain and heartache would enter your heart and mind and your choice (if you so choose) to understand them, then accepting what has been shown to reside within by letting the suffering you experience in these connections go, to let them go you surrender to the attachment to the results or expectations therein

gypsymystique · #3 19-06-2018, 05:19 PM

Try not to put an expectation on it. Just let it happen.

alcyone · #4 21-06-2018, 10:19 PM

It's easier to just let it happen. It's just so confusing, beautiful, I feel like I'm on edge and excited all the time now. IDK what is going on really. We've both already dreamed about each other. She reads me so easily and perfectly.

Realm Ki · #5 21-06-2018, 10:36 PM

Take your time to get to know here 'in this body', this incarnation - there will be 'earthly' quirks, there will be flaws and mismatches. Please, allow for the perfect imperfections to show before you piedestal her.

We are only one shade of ourselves here, we can never be all that we are, all that which we so clearly remember
of /recognize in each other - here. Our meets here will be more like postcards than the real thing, be grateful you found her - and allow for the longing to not necessarily reside ��

alcyone · #6 23-06-2018, 07:22 AM

I'm so confused and lost. Please help me out of it

#7 23-06-2018, 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gypsymystique

Try not to put an expectation on it. Just let it happen.

I think it’s important to repeat this advice.

Think of any friendships you developed over the years. Most, if not all probably happened and you didn’t hold expectations on them. Some of my strongest bonds happened by mistake.

And all of my short lived romances ended quickly because I tried to control the outcome.

No one plans when and how they will fart. It just happens when it does.
Be like a fart!

alcyone · #8 23-06-2018, 04:38 PM

You are right badcopyinc Im gonna do this!!