The whole conundrum being, of course is that while ever you 'see yourself' as being invisible, you'll remain that way.
I also used to suffer with the same affliction, until very recently in fact and there were a few things I realised:
1. You are not invisible! Other people are too busy being wrapped up in themselves, in where they want to go and what they want to do, they are like horses with blinkers on. That's not your fault.
My brother loves standing outside his shop during his lunch break and watch people bash into a tree in the middle of the sidewalk whilst texting on their phones. This provides endless amusement for him.
2. You are not invisible to those who love you and care about you and it only takes one person to understand...to say "I love you" and give you a hug to make it all worthwhile and open the floodgates of emotion. I have to thank 'awareness' on here for that and his user-name is apt.
3. You need to focus on doing what you enjoy and what gives your life meaning, without seeking approval or acknowledgment for it. It's all well and good to want to be noticed and to stop being invisible, but unless you find out why you want to be visible, you'll still remain invisible.
It's a heart chakra thing. The more you give of yourself selflessly, the more you'll be noticed and the more information you keep to yourself, the more you'll be noticed.
All the best with it.
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I am the creator of my own reality, so please don't get offended if I refuse to allow you to be the creator of it instead of focusing on creating your own. Thanks.
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