Please Help Me

[sohamfan11]

I Live Country India ,Sohamfan is not my real name , I had done some sins in past so society consider me Mad Eunuch , Duffer and World biggest sinner .
But I Consider My Self As Mad as i am Slightly Abnormal ,Eunuch - I am Born As a male but don't have manliness and duffer because i am neither smart nor intelligent and i consider myself as a sinner ,But i do not consider my self as World Biggest Sinner , What Should I do So that Society Would Not Consider me World Biggest Sinner [ Forum Member Please Help me]

[Jeremy Bong]

Sohamfan,

We meet again, you sit down. And I try to let my cupid son to tell you what you want to know and the advice you can follow.

[sky]

Originally Posted by sohamfan11

I Live Country India ,Sohamfan is not my real name , I had done some sins in past so society consider me Mad Eunuch , Duffer and World biggest sinner .
But I Consider My Self As Mad as i am Slightly Abnormal ,Eunuch - I am Born As a male but don't have manliness and duffer because i am neither smart nor intelligent and i consider myself as a sinner ,But i do not consider my self as World Biggest Sinner , What Should I do So that Society Would Not Consider me World Biggest Sinner [ Forum Member Please Help me]

It is very hard to change others beliefs and ideas, the best way is to build up your own confidence and self worth so that you can ignore their ignorance.
You are not a sinner you are equal to everyone else, we all do bad things which we regret but that is part of life, we live and learn. Let society think what they choose, you are not responsible for their stupidity. You are whatever you are, unique, don't allow others to make you think different, be yourself, as long as you don't hurt others.
We all make the wrong choices sometimes but that does not make you a sinner, the people who are treating you badly are the sinners.

[Serrao]

Originally Posted by sohamfan11

I Live Country India ,Sohamfan is not my real name , I had done some sins in past so society consider me Mad Eunuch , Duffer and World biggest sinner .
But I Consider My Self As Mad as i am Slightly Abnormal ,Eunuch - I am Born As a male but don't have manliness and duffer because i am neither smart nor intelligent and i consider myself as a sinner ,But i do not consider my self as World Biggest Sinner , What Should I do So that Society Would Not Consider me World Biggest Sinner [ Forum Member Please Help me]

It is good to know how others think of you.
Otherwise you would be naive.

It is more important to know how you think of yourself.

In my view, at the end of the day, life was more about yourself than about others, especially those who treat you negatively.

[sohamfan11]

Originally Posted by sky123

It is very hard to change others beliefs and ideas, the best way is to build up your own confidence and self worth so that you can ignore their ignorance.
You are not a sinner you are equal to everyone else, we all do bad things which we regret but that is part of life, we live and learn. Let society think what they choose, you are not responsible for their stupidity. You are whatever you are, unique, don't allow others to make you think different, be yourself, as long as you don't hurt others.
We all make the wrong choices sometimes but that does not make you a sinner, the people who are treating you badly are the sinners.

But I have done sin in this life also .

[sky]

Originally Posted by sohamfan11

But I have done sin in this life also .

We all do things which are deemed as sins, they are not sins but misjudged actions and if you learn from them and try not to do the same thing again then we are better people
If you can make amends for your wrong actions then do so but if you can't then learn a lesson and move on with your life as best you can.

[Jared.L]

Why do you consider yourself a sinner? I think that you should not name yourself a sinner just because you think that you are not intelligent enough. Every person has a value, talent or unique skill that can help you contribute the society and find your place in the world.

[Abrem]

Originally Posted by sohamfan11

I Live Country India ,Sohamfan is not my real name , I had done some sins in past so society consider me Mad Eunuch , Duffer and World biggest sinner .
But I Consider My Self As Mad as i am Slightly Abnormal ,Eunuch - I am Born As a male but don't have manliness and duffer because i am neither smart nor intelligent and i consider myself as a sinner ,But i do not consider my self as World Biggest Sinner , What Should I do So that Society Would Not Consider me World Biggest Sinner [ Forum Member Please Help me]

You can't change the way other people think of you in my experience. There are serious psychological repercussions to thinking that you are an undesirable being. You're experiencing the suffering from it now.

A person's strength and his weakness comes from his heart. Don't "think", just sit there and FEEL that you don't want that feeling using your heart. It works for me, though you may need to repeat the exercise several times.